In this article I’m gonna tell you 10 things that will help you to attract more women and enjoy more sex – and be “the prize” with women.

There are 2 types of situations when you interact with women.

• In the first case, you chase them.

• In the second one, they chase you.

Which one is your case? Remember, women want what they can’t have. If your case is the first one, probably you aren’t succeeding with women at this time. But if when you date a woman, you act like the prize and make her feel like she must "earn you" (the second situation)… … this means that you’re doing very well and you’re getting laid very week! If you want to know a few ways to becoming the prize keep reading because I’m going to share with you 10 of them.

This topic is really important because, if you let women be the prize by doing things like chasing them, calling them too much – most of the time they'll lose interest in you.

Have this happened to you recently?

You’re the Prize, not Her!

My purpose her isn’t to brag… but I gotta tell you that I’ve dated hundreds of beautiful girls using this “being-the-prize” attitude. So, here are some of the things I do when I’m on a date with a beautiful woman in order to be the prize and make her fall in love with me:

• "Prizability": First of all, I never let her be the prize. I never chase her – I want show her that think I’m valuable too and I‘m not a wussy boy who falls in love at first sight.

• Challenge: I’m always a challenge for her – in other words, I don’t do anything that suggest that she can have me. Most men do the opposite – they try to show at every minute how much they like the woman and care about her… bad news is that makes her be the prize, so they destroy their chances of succeeding.

• Not looking needy: I always wait 1 week before calling/texting/mailing her after the first, date so I don’t look needy at all. “…Not calling her right after the date, is VERY intriguing and attractive to a hot woman – most men call her immediately after the first date in an overly needy-emotional way, which is wrong of course…” says David DeAngelo.

• I value my time a lot: I never give away my time and dedication if I see she’s not my type of woman. And she’s my type and I really like her, I try to be as scarce as possible so my value goes up – not hers. I always show her that I’m short in time (on a date, when I call her and when I email/text her).

• I qualify her, even if she’s damn hot: I always show that I want to see if she is worth dating, no matter how amazing she might be. When I communicate that I’m “qualifying” her (that I’m the selector) to see if she’s someone I’d like to spend more time with, most of the time this makes them fall in love with me faster than normal… because as I told you at the beginning, women want what they can’t have.

• I’m confident: Showing that you can do anything you want to do = wet panties. That’s why I’m confident always. I never doubt, show hesitation or weakness in front of a woman. I always speak my mind with calmness and composure. “…Women love confident me who know how to handle each situation smoothly… confidence is the greatest aphrodisiac…” says Nick Savoy, author of Dating Advice Book Magic Bullets.

• High self-esteem: In order to be the prize and sleep with a woman, you must love yourself. Do you think that Brad Pitt isn’t happy with himself? Of course he loves himself. Having a high self-esteem makes you look more attractive to women… and lets them know you’re the prize.

• I don’t show her my emotions: As as rule o thumb, never tell her that I like her during the first 60 days. I always save sharing how I feel about her for later, because this shows her that I’m a strong man. “A good thing to do is to show only 3 emotions: Happy, Angry and the “I don’t give a damn” attitude when you’re around hot women” says dating advisor David DeAngelo.

• I’m mysterious: I never share the story of my life during the first 6 dates. “If she has figured out you completely, she won’t be interested in you anymore” says dating advisor Nick Savoy. Tell her everything about you until she’s already your girlfriend.

• Optimism: I know that any new woman I date will love me like my presence. “If you act as if she’ll be instantly drawn to you, believe that they like your body, your voice, your personality, chances are that a self-fulfilling prophecy will happen”  says David D. author of Double Your Dating.

Be the Prize

Remember, being the prize is the best (and easiest) way to get a girlfriend. This will let you stop chasing women and start focusing on your own life. Remember, the less you need women, the more they want you. So be the prize!

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