In today’s article, I’m gonna share with you 10 topics you need to avoid on the first date if you want to get a second date with a hottie. Remember, to get a girlfriend, you must play your cards right, so read on.

First date’s conversation always determines whether you get another date – Mario C. -Dating Advisor

Through the years, I’ve learned that the best way to create attraction between you and the girl you’re dating, is by demonstrating that you’re a cool, and confident guy.

And as rule of thumb, keep the first date light and fun… and avoid heavy topics!

So, here are the top 10 topics you should avoid at all cost on the first date. Let’s begin:

#10 – Past Relationships

Don’t talk about your ex-girlfriends…

…Don’t ask about her ex-boyfriends. Most women like to talk about their past relationships on dates – they trash their ex-boyfriends and make fun of them.

If you find yourself talking about this topic on a date, stop it and start talking about something else. Obviously, no one wants to talk about their past relationships because almost always it’s really uncomfortable.

#9 – Your Life’s Story

A mistake most men make on the first date is to show too much about them.

I’ve learned that the only way to get her interested in you is by telling her very little about you.

When you don’t reveal your life’s story, she’ll want to get to know you better.

Remember: When you talk too much about you, it shows that you lack self-control, so:

• Don’t give up all the details about your personal life too soon. Don’t reveal everything about you on the first meeting.

• When she asks about your job, school or family, this is a great opportunity to tease her. Say to her: “…What? Is this a job interview? Come on..!”

• Never brag about your achievements. I’ve found that this is a big turn-off for women.

#8 – Bragging

Look , showing her you’ve got some attractive qualities is a great thing to do, but just avoid showing-off – bragging is a turn-off…

Bragging shows her that you don’t think that you’re good enough…

… so you need to impress women with something else other than yourself.

If you want to display attractive qualities, but don’t know how to do it, use some routines instead. Love Systems’ routines are great ways to communicate to her that you’re “Mr. Right”. 

#7 – Complimenting Her

As a rule of thumb, don’t compliment women during the first 60 days. Look, the bad thing about compliments, is that they show her that she can have you! And  remember, you need to be a challenge to make her fall in love with you!

In other words:

Don’t do anything that suggests that she could have you… just if she wanted.

Also, most guys compliment women in an approval-seeking way. This is not good because, again, this shows a lack of confidence – and remember, not being confident isn’t attractive.

Bad move.

Next one.

#6 – Politics

Unless she’s a Senator or a City Major, politics is a boring topic to beautiful women.

So avoid it.

Note: Please don’t date politicians, I’ve learned that these women are REALLY high maintenance…

#5 - Your Bad Habits

If you have a bad habit, don’t talk about it. They’re not attractive to beautiful women!

Instead, do the opposite – show her your best qualities. For example, you might want to use a routine or tell her a story that says something good about you.

Again, Love System’s routines are great way to carry out this. When you use this tool, showing her attractive traits that instantly turn her on becomes easier:

• Decisiveness

• Leadership

• Being successful in life

• Responsibility

• Honesty

• Confidence

Again, routines are a great tool and can make you a chick-magnet, just remember to avoid showing-off- bragging isn’t attractive!

#4 – The Weather

That’s the most boring topic in the world.

Avoid it..!

Note: Talk about it only when you run out of things to say.

#3 – Current News

Another boring topic for a fist date…

#2 – Religion

She might have different religious views – so talking about religion may lead to a discussion, so don’t talk about it.

Save that for later. Besides, it’s also a boring topic.

#1 – Expressing Your Interest in Her

Remember: Women want a challenge!

…They want what they can’t have!

So never express directly your interest in her…

… and don’t tell her you that really like her.

If you open your mouth, it means that you’re an easy kill. Telling her that you are attracted to her is the worst thing to do during the first 60 days, because it sets the frame that you’re chasing her… something now attractive to women.

So, don’t show your feelings, instead show her a great personality. LINK COURSE

Conclusion

Now that you know some of the things you shouldn’t talk about on a date, read this article to learn the 2 best things to talk about on a first date.

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