13 Things Women Look For In Men
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Nov 27, 2009 | Comments 21
Did you know that you can push in a woman's mind "buttons" that makes her want you, almost instantly? This means that everyone can get a beautiful girlfriend without being handsome and tall. And that a regular man can be ugly and still get laid every night… … just by showing women at least 5 attractive traits, so they're not able to resist you:
- # 1. Being a leader: A good thing to do around a hot woman is to have a take charge attitude and to lead her all the time. The type of man women want is the one who makes all the decisions.
- # 2. Confidence: I've heard many women saying that confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac. I've learned that when I'm comfortable in my own skin, relaxed and calm around women I get laid a lot. Always. Another way to show confidence is by not giving women flowers and chocolates… that screams a lack of confidence.
- # 3. Being Pre-Selected: Preselection is an attractive male quality. Let me explain it quickly. Being preselcted means that you have many women interested in you. It's a biological issue – being preselcted makes women attracted to you works because if she knows other women want you, she'll feel the same towards you.. This is one of the things I talk about in my newsletter.
- # 4. Being a challenge: Being a challenge is about being the prize, playing hard-to-get and being busy. Being a challenge is about not chasing women and letting the to chase you. It's also about never revealing your feelings and not giving women compliments. This means that you need to have high standards so you don't let any woman walk all over yourself because you know you're very valuable!
- # 5. Being Masculine: It should be a mystery why women have sex with masculine men but not with weak wussies. A few things to do to seem more masculine is to develop a strong voice tone, having a good body posture and not fidgeting. Show her that you're calm and relaxed around her.
- # 6. Being "High Status": The are two types of men – High status or low status. Alpha or Beta. The ones who are Alpha usually get laid a lot. The have very active sex lives. So read this is you want to become an alpha male.
- # 7. Power: If you can make a woman feel safe and secure you'll get her into bed. Women need someone who can protect her offspring and knows how to be succesful in life… that's why being powerful helps to get a girlfriend.
- # 8. Being Strong: Look, being in shape and working out can make you look strong. But that's not the type of strength that helps to get laid. I'm talking about mental strength. I'm talking about not being a weak guy who whines and complains always. Being strong means that you don't reveal your feelings to her very soon. It means that you always keep a calm attitude, even if she's damn hot.
- # 9. Funny: Having a great sense of humor is a turn-on for women. Also, if you want to take your comedy skills to the next level and make women want you almost instantly, learn how to be cocky and funny.
- # 10. Emotional Health: When I start dating a new women, I always try to show that I'm a normal guy, not a "creepy-desesperate" for sex guy – women need to know that you're not a psychopath in order to sleep with you. So know how to deal with your emotions smoothly. Don't talk about your feelings to soon because this shows weakness to her.
- # 11. Well groomed: This is almost self explanatory. Get in shape, groom well and buy some nice clothes. These things are REALLY attractive to women.
- # 12. Good Looks: Of course women also love handsome men… just understand that look aren't the only thing women look for in men. If you're not Mr.Handsome there's no need to worry, just balance the situation by developing the other traits of this list and you'll still attract tons of beautiful women.
- # 13. Social Competence: Women want fun-social guys. They dislike lonely and shy guys. So a good thing to do to become more attractive to women is to show her your awesome social skills. Never be shy or awkward in social gatherings. Always smile, be fun to be around and make everyone have a good time.
How to get a girlfriend by developing these traits!
As a man with these qualities… I've learned that anyone with these traits is something rare and valuable to beautiful women.
Develop at least 3 of them to be more attractive to the woman you like.
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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