15 Ways to Ruin Your Chances of Getting a Second Date
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Oct 22, 2009 | Comments 1
Bad breath and not dressing well ruin any chances of getting a second date. Here are 15 things make women reject you.
Sincerely, I hope this check list helps you the next time you're on a date first date because it will help you get a girlfriend!
1. Showing too much interest, too soon: "When you ask for a second date, during the meeting makes you look needy and too available so avoid it” says dating advisor David D. author of Double Your Dating.
2. Telling her that you like her: Expressing directly your interest in her, you comes off as a needy – something not really adequate for a first date. Telling a woman you like her too soon makes women run away… so don't go too fast. 3. Bringing her flowers: Most men try to win women over by giving them gifts and flowers. Usually this makes women uncomfortable because it's too soon. As a rule of thumb, don't bring her anything until date number 15. “Before that point, you could come across as too interested in her… and very available. She could get bored with you” adds David DeAngelo.
4. Being too friendly: Not being strong and "alpha" 5. Lacking leadership skills: Not leading the date. 6. Being shy: Shyness is one thing that ruins your chances of getting a second date… very quickly. Women hate shyness, because it's unattractive to them.
7. Showing weak behavior: Women want strong guys… even though most men are weak. Some signs you're weak are speaking very fast, fidgeting and hesitating. Try to avoid this type of behavior at all cost.
8. Talking about boring stuff: Don't talk about boring topics during the first date. Past relationships, your life’s story, politics, current news and religion are boring topics.
9. Telling her your life’s story: Don't talking too much about you. If she already knows everything about you, why would she go out with you again? Don't kill the mystery, women love it!
10. A lack of style: Not dressing well is something women notice right away on a date. While it's something that ruins your chances of getting a second date, is not as determinant as the other points. Take care of your personal hygiene… and avoid a sloppy appearance!
11. No dancing skills: While you don't need to be an awesome dancer, women appreciate it when you know how to dance. So take a few salsa lessons and you'll become more attractive to women.
12. Being nervous: Nervous tics are something women hate in men. Remember, you wanna look confident. Learn how to stay calm and relaxed even if she's damn hot.
13.Being needy: Most men are too worried about whether they leaving a good impression. They do lame stuff like giving women gifts and flowers so t hey can win them over. The truth is that when you don't care about the outcome, your chances of getting another date go up instantly. That happens mainly because women want cool, confident and calm men.
14. Doing lame stuff: Giving her teddy bears, bringing chocolates and giving her flowers kills your chances of getting a second date. Women don't want you to give them gifts… they want you to be an attractive man. Learn how to become more attractive to women.
15. Not kissing her when the time is right: When you feel that the time is right, chances are that she feels the same. The eBook Double Your Dating has a great way to determine whether she wants to be kissed, called "The Kiss Test", I'd suggest yo take a look at it. Remember, if you don't kiss her now she'll think you're too timid or gay… and it'll ruin your chances of getting another date.
Conclusion and How to Get a Girlfriend
If you follow my tips, getting a second date will become easier. Print this guide and put it somewhere you can check it before a date. Also, I’d like to suggest you to read the 41 things I wish I knew when I started learning how to get girlfriend.
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Filed Under: DATING TIPS • GETTING SECOND DATES
About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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