17 Things You Should Not Do On a Date

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The other day I saw a guy and a hot girl chatting on in a coffee shop. Obviously they were on a date… and I can tell that he was really into her. I also noticed he was doing things that are unattractive to women. I noticed he was doing a few mistakes. I'd like to share them with you don't do them on a date.

17 Things You Shouldn’t Do On a Date.

Here are a few things the guy is doing wrong:

  1. He is reacting much more than her. Alpha men are cool, calm and relaxed… more than the girl.
  2. He is leaning his body towards her. When you are on date you should always lean back.
  3. He nods a lot. Nodding too much is a clear sign of approval-seeking, not very sexy too women, by the way.
  4. He is agreeing with everything she says. Again, this is a form of approval-seeking. This kills attraction.
  5. He is not relaxing his body. You must expand your legs and arms when you’re sitting next to a woman. This shows masculinity.
  6. He is giving her too much eye contact when she talks. When she speaks, you should just make eye contact 40% of the time – Don't give her all your attention. On the other side, when you speak, maintain eye contact 100% of the time. This is sexier.
  7. He is not touching her. You need to touch her hand and one of her arms from time to time when you speak. (You want to escalate sexually, you don't want to fall in the friend zone)
  8. He’s letting her to lead the conversation. On a date, you must be leading the conversation. Remember, you are the man and you must decide what you are going to talk about. This is sexy to women.
  9. He is trying to impress her by saying “brilliant and original” stuff. He's coming across as a try hard guy. Don't try to appear intelligent and don't  try to impress her. Instead, focus on projecting an attractive personality.
  10. He’s trying to solve her problems. Don't be her therapist. If you  try to solve her problems you’ll fall in the friends zone.
  11. He is just too nice and friendly. Don't do that. Be masculine instead. Nice men aren’t attractive too hot women.
  12. He is a "yes man". You should disagree with her from time to time! Speak your mind. This is sexy. Don't be rude, just confident.
  13. He is not DHV (Displaying Higher Value). To learn how to DHV, learn some routines.
  14. He is not teasing her. He seems to be very careful in the conversation. He doesn’t want to say anything that could upset her and make her leave. Look, sometimes teasing and making fun of women is the only way to create attraction, and keep them interested.
  15. He is serious. This seems like a job interview. He needs to be more fun to be around. He needs to learn a few routines, so his conversation becomes more interesting.
  16. He shouldn't agree 25 times in a row. Again, when you agree with her too much, you look weak and insecure. You must show her that you have your own opinions.
  17. He shouldn't nod a lot. Again, you don’t want to make women think that you don't have your own opinions. You need to show that you have strong points of view.

They are leaving now. I bet he thinks that he played his cards right and that he’s getting lucky soon…poor man. He needs to learn how to be a challenge for her.

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