41 Things I Wish I Knew when I Started Learning How to Get Girlfriend

frustration (2)In this article, I'm gonna share with you a few things I learned during 25 years of trial and error and how finally I became succesful with women.

Things I Learned in 25 Years: How to Get a Girlfriend

So here are a few things you can start doing now if you want to start succeeding with women. Don't make the same mistakes I made at the very begging. Doing these things REALLY helps you get a girlfriend!

  1. Energy: Energize yourself. Women like men who are active and busy doing their stuff.
  2. Neediness: Stop being needy. Women hate men who are too available.
  3. Shyness: Stop being shy.Hot women don't like shy men.
  4. Strength: Be a strong man. It helps to get a girlfriend faster because strength attract women.
  5. Conversation: Always have something to say. Be an interesting guy.
  6. Appearance: Take care of your appearance:  Shoes, Nails and Mouth.
  7. Texting: Don't text her after a date. This looks very needy.
  8. Thanks: Don't thank her for the date. Again, you don't want to seem needy 'cause it kills attraction.
  9. Reality: Most of the things you think work, they really don't, in the real world. What happens in romance novels is pure fiction.
  10. Opposites: Sometimes doing the opposite is what works. Women often don't make any sense.
  11. Calls: Stop calling her too much. When a woman notices you're too interested in her, she runs away most of the time.
  12. Phones: Don't talk her for 30 minutes over the phone, like her wussy friend. Again, women like men who are very active and busy with their lives.
  13. Touching: Touch her a lot (in a non sexual way first, then gradually escalate).
  14. Giving: Don't give her gifts: flowers, chocolates, letters. It doesn't work. It only makes you look needy and pathetic.
  15. Gyms: Enroll in a gym, women like muscles. But if you're not muscular, don't worry. Focus on develop an attractive personality.
  16. Attention: Don't pay her too much attention at the beginning. This is called playing hard-to-get.
  17. Ignoring: Ignore her for a few days, then call her. This is called being a challenge.
  18. Communication: When you call her for the first time, make short and to the point. You don't want to look to available that soon.
  19. Questions: Never ask her to be your girlfriend. This kills attraction. Let her share her feelings first.
  20. Attraction: Learn how to attract women by using your personality.
  21. Routines: Learn a few routines. It'll help you to have more interesting conversations with women.
  22. Dominance: Be a dominant male. Know how to lead the way. Always speak your mind.
  23. Confidence: Be extremely confident. Women prefer confident men… and hate insecure guys.
  24. Hesitation: Never hesitate. When you choose something, never doubt yourself.
  25. Friends: Make friends with extremely hot women. Don't hit on them. Just make friends.This will make you feel more relaxed around hot women you like.
  26. Joy: Be happy always! Happy-smiling men are more attractive and less boring.
  27. Optimism: Be optimistic when you think about how things are going with a woman.
  28. Books: Read dating advice every day.
  29. Persistence: Keep reading until you get good with women. Don't follow your friends' advice.
  30. Masturbation: Stop watching porn. Go out to meet women instead.
  31. Talking: Don't talking about boring stuff with women.
  32. Boring: Don't talking too much. It makes you a borinG guy. Women like mystery and intrigue.
  33. Thinking: Stop thinking about her all the time. Date other women.
  34. Busy: Like I said at the beginning, get a busy life! It makes you more attractive.
  35. Life: Make your life interesting; pursue your hobbies and goals. When women notice this, you become more attractive.
  36. Fun: Be a social guy. Be fun to be around. Women don't like shy men.
  37. Distractions: Stop watching TV more than 1 hour per day.
  38. Brad Pitt: Be a cool guy. Speak slow and deep. Speak like Rusty Ryan (Brad Pitt) in Ocean's Eleven.
  39. Be funny: Girls just want to have fun. Always remember that.
  40. Humor: Be cocky and funny. Cocky + Funny = Wet Panties. Learn it here.
  41. Pathetic: Do not talk about boring topics like school, work, family or politics on a date. Men  who do this, look very, very pathetic.

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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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