5 Reasons Why Using “Openers” Makes Meeting Women Damn Simple
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Dec 02, 2009 | Comments 4
In this article I'm gonna talk about the most powerful tool when it comes to approaching new women and getting dates: Openers. An opener is an open-ended question which allows the girl(s) you just approached to talk for hours. I use openers to meet EXTREMELY HOT WOMEN. Here's why:
1. I'll Be Different than Other Men
At this point you should know that girls are bored with the typical lines like "do you come here often? or the classic "can I buy you a drink". Openers are very different from any line she has heard. Why I used them, they don't even look like lines. If you "open" her by talking about relationships, cheating and feelings (things women love to talk about) it helps to start on the right foot. Openers are perfect to carry this out. Remember: first conversation's goal is to get her number/email. That's why openers helps you to succeed with women faster.
2. I Don't Need to Figure out Something Clever to Say
I always use "canned openers" that fit good each type of situation. When most men see a hot woman near them and want to start a conversation, they usually try to come up with something:
- clever
- original
- interesting
- charming
Then when they finally figured out the best thing to say to her, she leaves. Even if they start the conversation, the girl sees that he's trying to hard and then rejects him. That's too much pressure! If you want to feel more relaxed when you're about to start a conversation, you definitely must know a few openers. You need to focus on approach her, use the right body language and voice tone… not to invent lines on the spot!
3. Knowing What to Say Next is Easier
When you use openers, you'll notice how she always continues the conversation naturally by sharing her feelings and thoughts. That happen because most openers are open-ended questions which allows her to talk and talk… and talk… for hours! – even if you're a complete stranger yet! But if you want to be more ready if you don't know what to say next, read a few chapters of Routines Vol. 1. This book has great advice on what to say after the opener is done. It helps you to say things that are PROVEN TO MAKE HER WANT YOU.
4. Openers are the Safest Way to Start a Conversation
A woman will reject a man if he seems too interested in her. That's because that attitude makes her feel uncomfortable. But when you use an opener, she won't reject you… that's because opener don't seem like you're too interested in her. It just seems like you want a quick opinion on something. That's all.
5. Openers Are Interesting For Her
No one (yet) uses them. I think openers are one of the greatest invents of the XXI century… no kidding. Women love to talk about, drama, relationships and cheating… and those are opener's topics. If you want to learn everything about how to meet women and start conversation without rejection, I'd strongly suggest you to read Magic Bullets.
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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