5 Ways to Have Her Thinking About You all the Time
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Oct 17, 2009 | Comments 2
“Paying hard-to-get”, “being very masculine”, “reversing the tables” and providing comfort” are things that make women think about you the whole time. Ready to learn how to develop these traits?
Way #1: Play “hard-to-get”
Women like and want things they can’t have. I’ve found that this concept is especially true for hot women!
… so something that will leave her thinking about you when you aren’t with her is to play hard-to-get.
Do things that show that you’re not very available for her. Things that suggest that you’re very valuable and she’ll need to earn your time if she want to be with you.
Here’s a damn simple way to carry out this:
Step #1 – Tell her that you’ll call her on Monday
Step #2 – Don’t call her on Monday. Call her on Wednesday.
Step #3 – When you call her on Wednesday, plan a date on Friday.
Step # 4 – Cancel the date on Friday and reschedule it until next week.
See what happened here? You were “hard-to-get”. You weren’t available most of the time – and you made her wait.
Look, doing things like being scarce and not calling her every day makes her want to be with you paradoxically, because women want what they cannot have. This means that you shouldn’t that you like her for the first 60 days – so, stop showing your feelings early in the relationship.
Another great way to play hard-to-get is by don’t communicating with her too much. If you call her every day, she’ll lose interest in you.
When you play hard-to-get she’ll start thinking about you all the time (in a positive way) because she’ll try to figure out whether you like her.
Way # 2: Be Very Masculine
Another great way to have her thinking about you all the time is to be extremely masculine and acting like a real man.
The reason this tip works is simple, even obvious: women like masculine men!
“…I’ve learned that women prefer to date a guy who isn’t handsome but is very masculine and confident… than to go out with some Mr. Handsome who isn’t very masculine and is a weak man…” says David DeAngelo a well-known dating advisor.
So, become a masculine man, and you’ll get laid more often. Here are a few tips to it:
- Stop sharing your feelings during the first 60 days
- Be strong
- Speak with a deep and calm voice tone
- Don’t gossip
- Stop whining about your problems in front of a woman
- Show her that you’re not afraid of anything
Way # 3: Reverse the Tables
This is another way to play hard-to-get. This leaves her thinking about you because you are letting her know that you aren’t like the other guys… and lets her know that you are the selector… not the “selectee”.
For example, when your on a date and she tries to tease you… use a special type of humor called “cocky and funny”:
“I know that you love me… so please stop trying to hide it…”
She’ll laugh and hit you on the arm. Trust me on this. Reversing the tables works great. David DeAngelo adds that “being cocky & funny lets her know that she must earn you first, in order to be with you” I’ve learned that this makes her think about you the whole day!
…Isn’t cocky and funny an amazing thing? Here are another 5 cocky & funny comments you can start using right know.
Way # 4: Not Being Needy.
“Neediness is wussy behavior” says Double Your Dating. Like I said above, if you want to leave her thinking about you, you need to be masculine and stop being needy.
Some of the things needy guys do and you need to avoid at all costs are:
- Being clingy
- Not being able to say “no” to her
- Try please women all the time
- Try to impress them
- Always want to buy them expensive gifts and dinners so they can win women over
Remember: a woman thinks about you because of your personality…
… not because of all the gifts and dinners you bought her…!
Way #5: Creating Comfort
Make her feel protected. Create an atmosphere of trust and comfort. This is an especially important thing to do after you did the 4 thing from above If you can accomplish this last thing, she’ll want to be with you all the time.
Some of the best ways to get to that point are:
- Telling her stories about your life that she can remember later.
- Introducing her to your friends.
- Not trying to seduce her and going slow. Paradoxically this gets her into bed faster.
- Respecting her feelings and points of view.
Remember: when she trusts you enough she’ll start thinking about you all the time.
Final Points of Advice
I’ve just told you 5 ways to have her thinking about you all the time. Using regularly these tips will eventually make her fall in love with you:
- Play “hard-to-get”
- Be Very Masculine
- Reverse the Tables
- Don’t be Needy
- Create Comfort
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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