In this article I'll talk about why "being a challenge" makes hot women want you. I'm serious. Being a challenge is a very attractive male quality that almost instantly makes you irresistible for any woman.

Here's a great tip if you want to learn how to get a girlfriend.

People don't value things they can get too easily. It's a fact. That's especially true for women.

"Women want what they can't have. If you're to available, you'll make her lose interest"

That's why being a challenge is something women find absolutely irresistible, if done correctly.

Why Women Love Famous People

Have you analyzed why some women fall in love with actors, rockstars and famous people? Sometimes it isnt' their money what makes them so attractive. I've learned that women want them mainly because of 2 things:

1.   The actor's social proof: Social proof is a tool you can use to attract women. Let me explain you it. When actors are admired by most women, their social status and attractiveness is elevated in the eyes of any woman. That's because women tend to want what other women also want. That is social proof in action.

2.   She can't have him: Another thing that makes women want these famous people is that they know there's almost no chance they can even talk to them in their entire life. She knows he's a challenge for her. And again, women find attractive and desirable things other women want.

Being a Challenge Makes Her Want You

The combination of being a challenge (the ability to make her think that she can't have you) + social proof, triggers in her a very powerful emotion, called attraction… …That happens even to the most beautiful models. Being a challenge is more powerful and effective than good-looks or big bank accounts – and will help you to get a girlfriend faster. The truth is that women don't care about money and looks as much as you think.

How to Be a Challenge

The best way to be a challenge is by doing things that subtly show that she can't have you. A few things to do this are:

• Get married: Being married makes you a complete challenge for any woman. If you don't want to do that… try the next few tips.

• Be unavailable: Sometimes don't be available, but when you are, give her emotions and experiences she could never forget.

• Be unpredictable: Don't call her every day, at the same hour. Don't talk about the same things over and over. Be unpredictable and surprise her with unexpected things.

• Don't be too interested: Don't do things that suggest you are very interested in her. That's why you should pursue hotter women than her and subtly let her know this fact (just don't make it too obvious) This something that makes you a challenge. Remember, if she knows that you are in love with her already, she will naturally stop liking you – because you're not a challenge anymore.

• Don't compliment her: The best way to stop being  a challenge is by complimenting women. Also, when you give them flowers or gifts what you're basically saying is that you're not a challenge.

• Be busy: Be REALLY busy the whole time doing you're own stuff. Spending time with you must be really hard for her. Place a higher value on yourself and she'll want to spend more time with you.

• Be mysterious: Again, don't compliment women. You want to keep her guessing about whether you like her or not.

• Keep her guessing: Don't answer all of his calls/emails/text messages. If you do answer each one, you could come across as too interested in her. Something that lowers your value in her eyes.

• Play hard-to-get: A good way to carry this out is by telling her she's not your type – and that you only see her as a friend. This sounds counterintuitive… but it works. Hot women tend to play hard-to-get as a strategy to make men interested in them. Use this strategy to your advantage.

• Have high standards: Tell her what you look for in women. Qualify her. Make her know that she needs to earn your time and attention and that you're not an easy guy. Again, just make sure that it doesn't sounds arrogant or lame. Make it sound natural and normal.

Reverse The Tables: Make Her Chase You

Women need to feel that they're pursuing you and not the other way around, in order to feel attracted to you – so, stop chasing women and don't try to win them over by doing nice things for them. As I always say, if you want to get a girlfriend, you better show women attractive male traits, instead of trying to impress or buy her affection. In other words… to get a girlfriend you need to be the prize and never make her think that she is a challenge for you. She will fall in love with only you when she feels that she has earned you. In other words, women want to feel that they finally could "catch you" in order to sleep with you. These are the best ways to be a challenge. This article is part of the series "6 Ways To Get A Hot Girlfriend".

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