7 Proven Ways to Get a Second Date
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Dec 08, 2009 | Comments 2
I think the biggest obstacle to succeed with women is to get a second date. This makes you feel very frustrated. Do you ask yourself: “What I’m a doing wrong? Why can’t I succeed with women?” Here's how to end this problem:
Years ago, I believed that getting a second date was almost impossible for a guy who wasn't rich, handsome or famous. How wrong I was! I learned 7 things that guarantee getting second dates. Also, I learned that what I was doing wasn't helping me to get a second date… and learned what to do in order to succeed at the first date. Now I get second dates with every girl I date, and know how to make them almost beg me for another date.
I’m not trying to show off my success, just want to show what I do so you can be successful at it too.
Here are a few things I do:
# 7 [ I'm Not Needy ]
A beautiful woman hates neediness. A needy guy is someone who need women in order to be happy. Hot women want a guy who doesn't need her. A guy who isn’t looking for approval from her. She wants a guy who’s independent and doesn’t want to be with her the whole day. Two tips to stop looking needy are:
- Unattachment: Don't care about the outcome, especially in the beginning. Don’t sound like you are already in love with her.
- Uninterested: Never show too much interest in her during the first 60 days. Be a bit aloof towards her. Don't care too much about her.
- Don’t compliment her: If you compliment a woman on her beauty too soon, she’ll get that she already “has” you. This is bad because women want to sleep with men they can’t get.
These tips sound counterintuitive, but trust me, they work!
# 6 [ I See Hot Women Only as Bratty-Little Sisters ]
This tip makes you stand out from the other 39 needy losers she dated last month. Don’t treat her like a goddess. Don’t be intimidated by her beauty. Like I said before, be uninterested at the beginning. Two ways to carry out this are:
a. Being relaxed around her: Don't be uncomfortable around her. Relax yourself and speak slow. A beautiful woman is just a human being, so don't be intimidated.
b. Tease her: Look for opportunities to bust her balls. Make fun of her by saying cocky and funny comments. When you do this, she'll see that you're different from the other guys. Remember, most men are afraid to tease women. But when you’re extremely confident, you know you can do whatever you want around women. And you know why? This is extremely attractive to a hot woman! This helps you learn how to get a girlfriend.
# 5 [ I Never Plan a Date On a Date ]
As a rule of thumb, you shouldn’t ask women out on a date when you're already on a date! Remember the first tip about not being needy? Planning a date on a date shows her that you are hungry for sex. Remember, never show that you need her during the first 60 days. Go slow, wait one weak before you call her again and you'll get a second date easily.
# 4 [ I Am More Masculine than Other Guys She Dates ]
Turn on your masculinity. Don’t try to be sensitive and caring. Be tough grammar and strong. This attracts hot women. Watch some Clint Eastwood films to learn how to be more masculine. Watch how Michael Corleone on “The Godfather”projects a masculine attitude. In this article I talk about the lessons the godfather can give men about how to succeed with women.
- Don't be overly friendly. Be overly masculine instead.
- Lead her. Lead the way. Decide everything.
- Tease her like there's no tomorrow
- Stop being whinny or being weak
- Be strong, especially when you're around her
Like I said, hot women will love masculine men. I've found that being good-looking isn't necessarily important to get a second date. Being strong and masculine is more important.
# 3 [ I 'm Not "Nice"... I'm Confident ]
If you're a nice guy, you won't attract women, and you won't ever escape "The Friend Zone". Being a nice guy doesn't let you to attract high quality women. Divorced, older women, and women with children are the one that will show interest on you.
If you're too nice, a woman will see you only as a friend… and not a potential suitor, a classification difficult to undo.
While it's ok to be a gentleman, you should never say and do nice things. Sometimes being too polite makes you look weak, and unattractive. So, a few things you can do to stop being a nice guy are:
- Stop agreeing with everyone and everything.
- Stop being shy, hesitant, or passive.
- Stop being a people pleaser.
- Learn to say no to women. Take control of every situation.
- Remember that you don't need anyone to be happy.
# 2 [ I Make Her Wonder ]
I leave hot women wondering whether I like them or not, since the first date. This helps you get a girlfriend. I’ve learned that doing that leaves women thinking about me. How do I do this?
- I never show too much interest in her on the first date.
- I don't give her compliments, flowers or gifts.
- I act a bit aloof. I act as if I’m evaluating whether I like her or not.
- I'm cocky and funny
From my experience, these things make hot women hungry for sex… and makes them want a second date. So, leave her wondering whether you like her. Be mysterious and intriguing!
# 1 [ Relax, relax, relax! ]
It is very important to be relaxed and calm, especially during the 1st date. This shows confidence and masculinity. It makes you a chick magnet! Here are a few tips:
- Speak with a deep and seductive voice tone (Like James Bond or Brad Pitt characters)
- Keep your body language relaxed
- Don't fidget. Also keep your hands relaxed
- Move your hands slowly
- Lean back
- Turn your head very slowly
Conclusion
Getting a second date with a beautiful woman is not impossible. If you aren't rich, handsome or famous, use this tips to get second dates. Start enjoying a life around beautiful women! I'll talk to you soon! Mario C.
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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