In this article we'll learn why being strong is a masculine quality that attracts women instantly – good-looks and being rich won't get you laid as fast as being strong. There are 2 types of men. And just one group gets laid.

The Strong Ones: These guys take life's challenges without showing weakness. They’re powerful in influence and authority. Physical strength has nothing to do here. It’s about being “mentally powerful and firm”. The Weak Ones: This is the type of man who whines and complains about life.

Weak men generally are nice guy who are insecure, shy and nervous. A weak guy is always afraid of going for what he wants – and has a needy attitude towards women. The first group attracts women naturally, while the second one doesn’t.

Women notice really fast whether you're strong or you if you’re not weak. Women want to flirt with you, only if you’re strong. Women want to go out on a date with you when you’re very strong.

Women Need Strong Men

I’ve learned that women do not fall in love with weak men mainly because their weakness and insecurity are things they don’t look for in a man.

The most beautiful ones like to date strong, mature and masculine men who take life's challenges without showing weakness (later in this article I’ll tell you the reason). That’s why I always say that to get a girlfriend you need act strong and powerful – strength shows women you're a real man, not a weak wussy boy- and makes you a man who women would love to have sex with.

Don't make the same mistake I made in the past. I used to think that being nice and polite made women feel attraction towards me.

I was really wrong. Strong and powerful men are the ones who get girlfriend.

What About Women Who Say They Want Sensitive Men?

When you se a man with his girlfriend, you often see both talking about feelings. You see him being emotional and sharing his feelings. You see him being a bit weak so he shows he understand her emotions and stuff like that. So, maybe you won’t agree with me when I suggest to you to be strong in order to get a girlfriend.

That’s a common argument, especially from those who know men that are sensitive and emotional with their girlfriends. They swear being strong and masculine isn't a good strategy. When you ask a woman “What do you look for in men”… she’ll almost instantly answer:

“I want a sensitive man who can make me laugh”

There’s some truth to that. But let me tell you this. Of course when you’re already in a relationship, you can be less strong and start being a bit weak and sensitive. 

But remember, this  falls within the context of a long-term relationship… not in a context of meeting a new woman and start dating her. In the early days of the relationship, you need to show as much strength and masculinity as you can, if you want to attract a woman. So I think it’s never safe to be too rigid in what you believe. Men who are successful with women use what works best… … and don’t exclude anything – just because some people thing’k it doesn’t work.

How to Be Strong

Ok, now let me tell you how to develop this attitude.

Being strong is all about having a firm, optimistic and courageous attitude towards life.

It’s all about speaking deep and slow… and not being afraid of showing extreme masculinity to women. Being strong also means that you’re powerful in a specific field and know how to succeed at it.

Again, muscles have nothing to do here. Of course they could help you to attract women at first, but if they get to know you better and discover that you’re a weak guy, you’ll turn them off.

According to that description, do you feel strong now? Most men believe that working out every day and being in great shape will get them laid… but the truth is that women care a lot about your inner strength – even more about “external” or visible strength. That’s one of the reasons women test men in different and very subtle ways.

They need to know whether you’re just pretending to be strong. They want to know whether you’re firm and courageous, so you can protect and give them security. So here are a few key points to consider if you wan to develop a strong personality and get a girlfriend:

• Be firm and courageous always, especially when you are around her. Never whine or complain in front of her.

• Be powerful in social situations.

• Be mature, bold and decisive.

• Be good at something… and be competent in life.

• Show her that you know you can succeed.

• Tell her that you’re not afraid of anything.

Conclusion

So we’ve just learned why and how to be strong. Now let me give you some last points of advice that will help you to be more attractive and interesting to women:

1. Show people that you are an achiever – and not an "excusiologist".
2. Speak firmly and with security.
3. Use a deep voice tone.
4. When you’re out on a date with hot girl, don't be too nice to her.
5. If you face a challenge in life, show her that you have potency and willingness to overcome it.

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