A Thing That Makes You Different From The Other Guys She’s Dating
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Dec 23, 2009 | Comments 1
This is part of the article “How to Act On a Date so You Make Her Want You Badly”.
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Sometimes what I write about how to be successful with women seems counterintuitive.
Last week, I received an email from George (a reader) who says that he
- Reads my tips every day
- Reads my eCourse
- Is getting great results. More dates and kissing and is meeting new women every week.
Also, he says that now he understands what DoubleYourDating says about how women don’t make sense.
Women don’t make sense means that doing typical things (giving them compliments or paying expensive dinners) women do the opposite you’d normally expect them to do.
Also, David DeAngelo says that what sounds counterintuitive is what works.
So here’s one of those crazy (but awesome) tips Double Your Dating gives you:
Don’t Be Clingy!
On a date, act like you’re in a hurry to leave!
Here’s how to use this tip:
1. Let’s say you’re on a coffee shop and both of you are sitting comfortably.
2. Watch you phone and tell her that you can just stay for 20 minutes more.
3. Give her any excuse. Tell her that you have a few things to do. Don’t give her more details. Keep her guessing…
4. Then after these 20 minutes, leave!
Why Is This A Good Thing To Do On A Date
- It subtly tells her that you only want is a cup of coffee… NOT TO GET INTO HER PANTS.
- Most guys try to spend 3 hours with her to win her over – and usually women get bored with these guys. So this attitude will keep her interested in you and will encourage her to start chasing you after the date.
So, as a rule of thumb, only stay for 30 minutes on the first date.
It doesn’t matter how hot she is or how good “things are going”.
This creates attraction… and makes her want you badly.
A few benefits of this are:
- When you act like you’re in a hurry, she’ll think that you might not be THAT interested in her – And remember, women want what they can’t have.
- When you don’t act clingy she starts seeing you as different from the rest.
- This sets you apart from all those men who try to impress her.
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.


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