Brilliant Things to Say When She Won’t Give You Her Number/Email
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Jan 09, 2010 | Comments 0
When you meet a woman, and feel that she might be interested in you…
…it’s time to get her number and email!
From my experience, when you ask for her info in a confident way, almost never she’ll say “no”.
But be ready if that’s not the case. Prepare clever comebacks!
Here’s what you can do if she gives you an excuse:
#1. She Tells You “I Have a Boyfriend”
If she didn’t react negatively to your approach…
…most of the time she’s not telling the truth – she just wants to see how would you react.
In other words, she’s testing you.
And what you need to do is to answer her something clever… don’t just say “Oh, I’m sorry have a nice day…” A few comebacks to use when she gives you the “I’ve got a boyfriend” line are:
- “We’ve just met… Don’t tell me your problems… It’s too soon!”
- “Look, I’m not looking for a new job. I just want to get you’re email so we can chat later.”
- “What, are you trying to set me up with him?”
- “I’m sure you’ve also got a few sunglasses… and, isn’t it always really relaxing to shop for more?”
- “Ok, ok…. if you want, you can bring him, if that’s what makes you happy.”
These comebacks are great because they make her laugh. They show that you’re a man who is in control.
If she comes up with this in the middle of the conversation, just ignore the comment. Say “Oh that’s great… congratulations!” and just return to the conversation.
Pretend like it isn’t a problem.
#2 She Says “I Don’t Have a Phone”
She’s lying!
And you know what? this is a great opportunity to build attraction by teasing her. Just say:
“Oh that’s ok… by the way, do you have running water?”
or
“Wow, that’s amazing… do you have electricity?”
Most of the time she’ll laugh and then give her info to you- but if she keeps saying she has no phone…
… ask for her email!
It’s that easy.
#3 She Gives You the Classic Line: “Give me yours and I’ll call you”
Again, she’s just testing you. That’s her way of not making you feel bad for being rejected…
…but what if Brad Pit asks for her number/email? Of course she’d give it to him… So if she gives you this line, say:
“Oh my god…come on! I’m not like all the other guys who fall for that line. We both know you’d never call. Just write your email/number down. You’re gonna have fun.”
#4 She Says “I don’t know you yet”
Again, she just wants to know how you’ll react to that. She just wants to know if you react confidently…
…or with insecurity.
I’ve learned that a woman will give me her number if I show her enough confidence. But if she gives you this line, just answer:
“Look, I don’t know you either, wouldn’t this be a perfect chance to get to know each other?”
#5 She Says “No!”
If she sounds determinant, don’t lose your time:
Just smile and say “Have a nice day!” That’s ok, she’s probably happily married.
There’s no need to worry my friend. There are hundreds of beautiful women that might be interested in you.
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.
