How to get a girlfriend: Beliefs!

Have you watched the movie “the secret”? What it basically says it that thoughts become things, and that we bring into our lives things we think about most of the time. This is very important if you want to get a girlfriend. Let me explain you why:

Definitely what we believe affects the way we do in life. Beliefs and thoughts are self-fulfilling prophecies.

Most of the time what we believe, becomes reality. This is especially true when it comes to getting a girlfriend.

When you believe you don’t deserve to have sex with a hot woman, it’ll be really difficult to achieve that goal. When you have a set of empowering beliefs about women and dating, succeeding with women becomes easier.

The Six Beliefs that Help Me to Get Laid More Often

• The top 6 is: “I deserve a very hot girlfriend. I am really worth of it.”

• Top 5 is: “People love me. I am a very fun person to be around.”

• Top 4 is: “Beautiful girls always feel attracted to me. I’m able to attract any kind of woman because I’m worth of them.”

• The top 3 goes like: “I deeply believe that I have many to offer to any girl, so every girl must respect me. If a girl won’t go on a date with me, she misses it.”

• Top 2: “Getting a girlfriend is easy for me. I can get anything I want in life. I always succeed. I am a high status leader.”

• My favorite personal belief is:“Extremely hot girls need and want me. Beautiful women need my body and my presence. They need me to be happy.”

To attract beautiful girls into your life, change “erase” your limiting beliefs you might have about women and “rewrite” your memory with empowering ones.

Write down your own empowering beliefs, especially the ones that suit you the best.

Watch a few minutes of “The Secret”

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But be ready if that’s not the case. Here are some clever comebacks!

#1. She Says “I Have a Boyfriend”

If she didn’t react negatively to your approach… …most of the time she’s not telling the truth – she just wants to see how would you react. In other words, she’s testing you. And what you need to do is to answer her something clever… don’t just say “Oh, I’m sorry have a nice day…” A few comebacks to use when she gives you the “I’ve got a boyfriend” line are:

• “We’ve just met… Don’t tell me your problems… It’s too soon!”

• “Look, I’m not looking for a new job. I just want to get you’re email so we can chat later.”

• “What, are you trying to set me up with him?”

• “I’m sure you’ve also got a few sunglasses… and, isn’t it always really relaxing to shop for more?”

• “Ok, ok…. if you want, you can bring him, if that’s what makes you happy.”

These comebacks are great because they make her laugh. They show that you’re a man who is in control. If she comes up with this in the middle of the conversation, just ignore the comment. Say “Oh that’s great… congratulations!” and just return to the conversation.

Pretend as if it isn’t a problem.

#2 She Says “I Don’t Have a Phone”

She’s lying! And you know what? this is a great opportunity to build attraction by teasing her. Just say:

“Oh that’s ok… by the way, do you have running water?” or “Wow, that’s amazing… do you have electricity?”

Most of the time she’ll laugh and then give her info to you- but if she keeps saying she has no phone… … ask for her email! It’s that easy.

#3 She Gives You the “Give me yours and I’ll call you” Line

Again, she’s just testing you. That’s her way of not making you feel bad for being rejected…

…but what if Brad Pit asks for her number/email? Of course she’d give it to him… So if she gives you this line, say: “Oh my god…come on! I’m not like all the other guys who fall for that line. We both know you’d never call. Just write your email/number down. You’re gonna have fun… how to get a girlfriend” 

#4 She Says “I don’t know you yet”

Again, she just wants to know how you’ll react to that. She just wants to know if you react confidently… …or with insecurity. I’ve learned that a woman will give me her number if I show her enough confidence. But if she gives you this line, just answer:

“Look, I don’t know you either, wouldn’t this be a perfect chance to get to know each other?”

#5 She Says “No!”

If she sounds determinant, don’t lose your time: Just smile and say “Have a nice day!” That's ok, she's probably happily married. There’s no need to worry my friend.

There are hundreds of beautiful women that might be interested in you.

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Most average guys may think men who are successful with women are the only one who are rich and handsome, let me tell you why that’s not true. In this article I’m gonna talk about a personality trait that allows them to get 95% of all women: “Dominance”

“Dominance is a display of mental power, using your wisdom, guile, smarts. This is one of the traits that attract women”

If you can develop this trait, easily you’ll be part of the group of the 5% of all men that get 95% of all women!

How to Use this Knowledge to your Advantage

The best situation to show her this trait is during the first date. That’s when she'll be observing your behavior, to determine whether you are Mr. Right or not. So, if you like to get a girlfriend and attract more women, stop being submissive, the opposite of dominance.

• Be the leader: Lead the date in a gentle way. Decide where to go, where to sit, what to talk about and so on.

• Don’t look for approval: Men who look for approval from women never get laid. Women instantly reject this type of men. So never look for approval from a woman.

• Don’t be submissive: If someone want to give you orders… don't be rude with him/her, just speak your mind. Remember, women don't want you to be submissive.

• Be independent: Don't "be obedient", dependent or shy. Always show women you lead your own life. Women tend to find this trait very attractive. I’ve learned this from experience.

• Be self-assured: Something that makes you a dominant guy is self-assurance. When you assume you're always right when you’re with a woman, you become more dominant that her, and you push her attraction buttons in her mind. Of course, do it in a very respectful way.

• Be fun!: Socialize a lot more, become "Mr. Fun Social Guy". This makes you automatically more dominant and attractive to her.

• Be strong: Don't be afraid to show her you are a very strong male. So be “mentally strong”. Don’t whine. Don’t complain. Don’t be emotional. Take life’s challenges with confidence and calmness.Remember, dominance has nothing to do with physical muscles.

Conclusion

Nice guys finish last. Learn how to be dominant and you’ll enjoy more sex.

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What is important on a date is to attract her and build the sexual tension.

So today, I'm gonna focus on explaining you how just to go and do something interesting that attract her – instead of going on a date and buy her an expensive dinner and taking her to a boring movie.

# 1 Coffee Dates are Better

I've found that the smartest thing to do on a date is to take her to a coffee-house. Here are a few benefits of doing this:

• These dates aren't expensive

• They’re quick and casual. You can just have fun and talk

• It doesn't look like you are courting her – so you become a challenge.

• Going to Starbucks isn't "romantic", so there's no pressure at all for her.

"Coffee dates make you an interesting guy who is not like the others", Double Your Dating says. "Every man wants to take her out to fancy restaurants and buy her expensive things … just to impress her and win her over". So, don't do that. Instead, impress her with your personality (not with your wallet). The point is not to look like you want to impress her doing romantic things and stuff so you become the prize. The idea here is to find some place you feel comfortable with… and then go there – but look, if you don't like Starbucks, it'll be a bad idea to go there on a date. So now let me give you other first date tips.

# 2 Go to Fun Places

Find a place with interesting things to do and talk about… somewhere you can be comfortable on the date. Since women are emotionally creatures – if you can make give them a lot of emotions on the date, you'll make her want to be with you so badly. Let me talk about some great locations you might pick for a first date, other than the typical "movie nad dinner" date.

• Malls: Consider to go somewhere full of fun shops. You can even have her help you pick out new clothes.  I've learned that fun shops give you many things to talk about with her. Make sure you wander away from her a few times so you don't look needy.

• Concerts Going to concerts helps you to relax cause won't need to speak – these places are great especially if you're not a great conversationalist. You can just sit and listen to the band. Go to her favourite band's concert… you'll make and unforgettable impression on your date.

• Entertainment places: Casinos and Dave and Buster's are great locations for a date since there are lots of things to do and talk about – besides she can "get" lots of emotions at those places.

• Mini-golf Date: Again, women love fun places. This location allows you to talk a lot with her. And remember, this is a great time to use some routines on her, in order to push attraction buttons in her head.

Conclusion

I hope you consider some of these places on your next date. Let me know what you think about these places. Remember, spending too much money on women isn't necessary… and it's lame because it makes you look like you are trying to impress women.

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The main reason is it gives her all the power! And since women only feel attraction towards men they can't have, when you compliment her you show that she can have you… …so you kill the attraction she feels naturally for you! Most men compliment women all the time. 

They try to present themselves as ‘nice men’ who love their moms, have stable jobs, and are good guys. If you are like them, she'll be bored with you REALLY FAST. Stop complimenting women, and start making cocky and funny comments. 

She's Bored with Men Who Compliment Her!

When you compliment women, inside she’ll say to herself:

"Oh my good, here's another lame guy who has fallen in love with me… he's so boring"

As harsh as it might sound, it's true. If she's a beautiful woman, chances are that every man she dates have told her "how beautiful she is". And when this happens, instantly she stops liking him… because she knows he's just like the other guys…

…like the ones who think that compliments are going to make her fall in love…!

Bust Her Balls Instead

Busting her balls and being cocky and funny are 2 things you can do instead of complimenting her.

These things set you apart from the rest of the guys she has dated. She'll see that you're different… and you'll keep interested because you won't seem as a “try-hard guy”. Do you understand now why you shouldn't compliment hot women?

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Cocky and funny is a technique you can use with women you want attract. The magic of being cocky and funny is that most hot girls will feel attracted to you instantly when you use the technique. Learn how to make it work here.

Why the Cocky & Funny Formula Works?

You see, the hottest girls are used to being chased by hundreds lame and insecure guys. These guys buy them gifts, act like their servants and do anything they want. … The reality is that women are bored with these guys. They’re just predictable and unattractive to hot women. Women need men who are different.

They need confident, self-assured men in their lives. A hot woman wants a guy who acts extremely confident, almost arrogant. She wants a guy who doesn’t buys her everything she wants. She wants a strong guy who is not shy, insecure or nervous around her. She wants a real man.

So, when you say something C&F to her, you become different from the other 58 guys that tried to seduce her the same week. As I said in other article, a cocky and funny comment is an arrogant comment that makes her laugh. Learn the best cocky and funny comments here.

Funny arrogance attracts women.

However, while it’s very easy to say a cocky and funny comment, it’s also extremely important to do it correctly. I’ve seen guys who use the technique, but they say the comments in an insecure, timid. Other guys use this technique in an overly arrogant way. They try to intimidate women with this attitude. That’s also wrong.This technique is not about making women feel bad or lower their self-esteem. The best way to say these comments is with confidence, calmness and self-assurance. There are other few things you should keep in my next time you want to use the C+F technique.

• Be confident: You'll need some balls to say these comments. Also, hot women tend to immediately she will start throwing you tests like there's no tomorrow. So the first thing to make the technique work is to be extremely confident when you say the comment. “Remember, you want to sound like James Bond, not like a wussy nerd” says David DeAngelo, the author of this technique.

• Maintain your composure: Don’t laugh at your own comment. Keep a serious face. If you said the comment correctly, she’ll laugh. This means that she’s attracted to you now. If you laugh with her, it kills the effect.

• Don’t look for approval: When you say a cocky and funny comment, don't look for her approval, just say them with confidence and don’t care about what she might think. Don’t try to make her laugh. Don’t look for a reaction. Say the comment and start talking about something else immediately.

• Make eye contact. It’s very important to maintain eye contact while you speak with women. You want to communicate that you’re very confident, and the best way to carry this out is by always making strong eye contact with a woman. This makes the cocky and funny formula work better.

• Know how to be funny: The cocky and funny technique is about arrogant comedy… so learn a few things about comedy and how to be funny. Learn how to make people laugh. Watch a few comedians at you tube to get and ideas about how to a funny guy. Stop being so serious. Be relaxed and try to give her a fun time when you use this technique.

• Don’t use it too much: While it’s ok to throw her a couple of C+F comments during the date remember not to overdoing it. You want make her think that it’s just a part of your personality and not a smart technique you learned reading a website. “2 cocky and funny comments are enough to make her want you and to become an interesting guy” says David DeAngelo, the author of this technique.

• Be indifferent: Don’t care about the outcome. If she gets mad it’s because she doesn’t have a sense of humor. The point of this technique is to show her that you’re not too interested in her and that you’re extremely confident. Only REALLY confident guys would say that kind of comments.

• Sound natural: Most guys sound too obvious when they’re using this technique. Other make is sound like a canned line they just learned. It’s important to remember that these comments MUST sound as natural possible, in order to make them work. Don’t sound arrogant.

• Don’t sound goofy: This technique has 2 parts: the arrogance and  a funny element. I’ve seen many guys forgetting the arrogant part and focusing too much on make her laugh. To make the technique work, you want to sound confident, mysterious and a bit aloof.

• Pass her tests: Hot women will be shocked  when you tell them a cocky and funny comment because it shows extreme confidence.  No one has told them anything like that. Now, naturally she’ll want to know whether you’re really confident or if you just learned the line. Learn how to pass her tests.

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Knowing the best places to met them + Using the cocky and funny technique

Here's a list of the best places to meet women easier. It's damn simple if you say something cocky and funny in order to start a conversation with any woman.

Top 10 places to meet women

The top 10 places to meet women without being rejected, from my experience is:

10.  Online

9.     From a mutual friend

8.     Yoga Lessons

7.     Bookstores

6.     Coffee shops

5.     Sexy single Co-workers

4.     University Campuses

3.     Grocery Stores

2.     Expanding your social circle.

1.     By making friends with ugly women. But don't get me wrong here. Getting a sexy girlfriend it’s not just about using openers and routines everywhere you go. It also takes time and practice!

Here are a few things to consider before try to meet women especially if you don't want to be rejected.

• Believe that you’ll succeed: I think that the main reason a woman rejects a man when he approaches her is because he showed a lack of confidence in himself. So when you approach a woman, be calm, confident and don't be nervous.

• Be natural: Learn how to approach women without seeming creepy, needy, gay or desperate. It doesn’t matter what you say as long as you project a confident body language around sexy women.

• Use an opener: Start conversations using openers. They’re the best way to meet new women because you don't have to think about what to say. Openers are proven ways to start conversations. Learn more about them here Dating Advice book has hundreds of them. I use that book always as a tool to meeting women easily.

• Speak strong and with a deep tone: On of the main reasons women reject men when they start a conversation is because of how he started the conversation. Learn how to speak deep and relaxed – This quality is very attractive to hot women. They like to be around a strong man who isn't afraid to talk to her.

• Don’t look needy: “When you start a conversation with a woman, don’t look like you’re too interested in her – you can carry this out by saying a few CF comments” says Dating Advisor David deAngelo. CF comments suggest that you’re not really interested in her… and it’s great to use them when you approach a woman… because they prevent you from looking needy.

If you feel unsure about what to in order to start a conversation, then I'd suggest you to read DoubleYourDating. This book definitely helped me to learn how to meet women at any situation. If you aren't using this system no one can guarantee that you'll succeed with women. But if you do, it'll allow you to approach her and say the right things… and I guarantee you that your success rate will dramatically INCREASE.

Learn How to Approach Women

Now you know the top ten places I’d like to suggest you to learn everything about how to approach women correctly! Read this eBook to overcome your "approach anxiety". Use this tips regularly. They'll make you successful at meeting women. Free Dating Tips For Men Click Here

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• Confidence

• Relaxed Body Language

• Dominance

• The right amount of cockiness

• Sense of humor

• Charm

• Calmness

• Balls

• Strength

• Power

• Unpredictability

Some actors are great at displaying those personality traits that attract women. They're money is not what (entirely) attracts sexy women… They behave in ways that attract them! So, go ahead and watch these movies. Pick one character and start behaving like him. . Internalize his behaviors, beliefs and his overall attitude towards life. Make qualities a part of you. You'll start feeling empowered… and more attractive. And believe me, hot girls will start noticing you.

Do these guys know how to get a girlfriend?

Of course, all of them have successful love lives. Most of them date super models and some of the hottest girls alive. They have the greatest aphrodisiac, confidence. Here is a quick list of the main characters you should study:

Actors Who Have Personalities That are irresistible to Beautiful Women.

• Cary Grant (Nickie Ferrante/An Affair to Remember 1957)

Cary Grant

• Humprey Boggart (Rick Blane/Casablanca 1942)

Humphrey Bogart

• Brad Pitt (Rusty Ryan/Ocean's Eleven 2001)

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• Al Pacino (Michael Corleone/The Godfather 1972)

• Clint Eastwood (Any of his movies)

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• Pierce Brosnan (Thomas Crown/The Thomas Crown Affair 1999) – (James Bond/Any of his James Bond Movies)

• Sean Connery (James Bond/Any of his James Bond Movies)

• George Clooney (Danny Ocean/Ocean`s Eleven 2001)

• Daniel Craig (James Bond/Casino Royale 2006)

Daniel Craig

• Robert DeNiro (Vito Corleone/The Godfather 1974)

• Andy Garcia (Terry Benedict/Ocean`s Eleven 2001)

• Tom Cruise (Maverick/Top Gun 1986)

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Don't be Too Available

A woman will realize that you want to get her into bed if you're always available. The 2 bad things will happen: 1. You won't trigger her "attraction buttons". 2. She'll see you as a another typical boring "nice guy" Remember the law of scarcity:

When someone perceives something they want to be in limited quantity,the perceived value of that thing or person becomes more valuable than if were widely available.

So, if you are always busy, your perceived value will be HIGHER and it will make you more attractive to her.

How Does Being Busy Helps You to Get a Girlfriend?

The reason I'm suggest you to become a busy man is because women want men they can't have. Not being available subtly shows her attractive things about you:

• It confuses hot women: Remember, beautiful women want men they can't have. The best part of being busy is that it confuses hot women. Look, these girls are used to being chased by men. "If she thinks that you aren’t interested in her, she'll start wanting to be with you" says David DeAngelo.

• It makes you scarce… and more valuable: When you're not available for a hot woman, it lets her know that she needs to earn your time and attention if she want to be with you – and when you do this, you're value goes up instantly. It makes you more likeable… and attractive

• Creates mystery: When you're really busy to spend time with her, it makes wonder whether you’re really interested in her or not. Of course you dot want to be unavailable always. You just need to be busy part of the time, so you let her know that you are valuable too.

Years back I always was too available for women. I tried to spend the whole day with the girl I was dating. Then, when most of them didn't return my calls nor want to go out on a second date, I learned that hot women shouldn't be the first priority in my life… and that if they noticed this, I would lose them. That's why being unavailable for women helps you to succeed in the dating game. Remember, I'm not suggesting you to be unavailable the whole time. Just be busy some days… especially if she's really hot. Trust me on this… I've been there. Don't make the same mistakes I made. This article is a part of the eCourse "50 Personality Traits That Attract Women" Here's how to subscribe to it. Follow me on twitter!

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