To succeed with women, look very confident when you’re around them. This is extremely important. Here's how to carry this out. Showing confidence makes any woman want you. Unconsciously, women are attracted to men who display confident behaviors. So to get a sexy girlfriend, look confident from the moment you meet her – until you get her into bed (hopefully!). 2 ways to achieve this goal are:

• Speaking slow

• Pausing while you talk

Even though both things are simple, they make a huge difference in the way women see you. Let me explain you how to use this tip:

#1 – Speak Slow. Always!

Did you know that women love men who are calm, relaxed and in control of the situation? I've learned that they don’t like insecure guys who don’t allow themselves to relax and speak calmly, slowly and almost not caring way. Speaking slow shows her confidence… mainly because it makes you look more calm and relaxed. So don’t be a nervous guy who speaks fast… Rememeber, it makes you look lame and insecure – 2 things that make women run away from you.

Instead, develop a calm attitude, speak slower than you would normally speak. This will make you more desirable than the other guys.

#2 – Make Pauses

Pausing when you speak, is another great way to display confidence. Pauses show that you're in control of the conversation and relaxed…. 2 qualities that make you more attractive to women. So find places in the middle of the conversation to leave spaces… feel comfortable with the silence. When you make a pause, make strong eye contact. This shows extreme confidence. For example, a good moment to do this is when you are telling her a story. Here’s what do:

1. When you’re about to end the story, say: “…So, do you want to know how the story ends?”
2. She’ll say, “Of course!!”
3. Then look into her eyes, smile… and PAUSE!
4. After a few seconds, she’ll say, “Well…?!”

I've learned that when I do this, I become a more interesting person to her. Other benefits of pausing are that pauses…:

• …build up the sexual tension between you and her.

• … get her emotionally involved.

• … make you look more deep, intriguing and interesting.

So go ahead and practice these things when you’re out on a date, especially during the first one - it will improve your dating skills a lot.

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