If you want to get a sexy girlfriend, appear confident on the first date.

Showing confidence at every single stage of the relationship will make her want you.

This means that from the moment you meet her – until you get her into bed, you need to look confident.

So, 2 things to do this are:

• Speaking slow

• Pausing

Even though these things are very simple, they make a huge difference. Let me explain how you can start practicing them.

#1 – Speak Slow. Always!

So this tip is self-explanatory. Women love men who are calm, relaxed and in control of the situation.

I’ve learned that they don’t like insecure guys who don’t allow themselves to:

• relax

• take a deep breath

• speak in a calm, slow and almost not caring way.

Speaking slow demonstrates confidence because it makes you look more calm and relaxed.

Don’t be a nervous guy who speaks fast… It makes you look lame and insecure – 2 things that make women run away from you.

Instead, develop a calm attitude that helps you to speak slower than normal and seem more confident that the other guys.

#2 – Make Pauses

Doing pauses while you speak, is the best way to look confident. Pauses show that you’re:

• In control of the conversation

• Relaxed

• Intelligent

…3 qualities that make you more attractive to women.

So find places in the middle of the conversation to leave spaces… that will make you look more confident.

For example, a good moment to do this is when you are telling her a story. Here’s what do:

1. When you’re about to end the story, say: “…So, do you want to know how the story ends?”
2. She’ll say, “Of course!!”
3. Then look into her eyes, smile… and PAUSE!
4. After a few seconds, she’ll say, “Well?!”

I’ve learned that when I do this, I become a more interesting person to her. Other benefits of pausing are:

• They build up the sexual tension between you an her.

• They get her emotionally involved.

• They make you look more deep, intriguing and interesting.

So go ahead and practice these 2 tips, especially during the first date - it will improve your dating skills a lot.

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