Being a “player” will help you to get a girlfriend.

You know, there are many aspects of being one. This article focuses on the key areas you should develop to be one.

The first thing that separates players from regular guys is that:

Players are “Alphas”

But what is an alpha man?

Alpha Men Are Different

Let’s face it.

Alpha men (i.e. Mr. Right) think differently than the rest.

Very often, they do the exact opposite a normal “chump” would.

But when I talk about Mr. Right I’m not talking about handsome men or top models.

I am talking about men that understand 100% the dating dynamics and also understand female psychology perfectly.

This kind of men, tend to use their knowledge to their advantage.

The Player Acts Differently

From my experience, players do things in a very interesting way.

I would like to share with you a very interesting story:

The other day a couple of friends of mine and I went out for a beer to a local bar near my home.

Suddenly a gorgeous girl walks in. She was totally stunning blonde.

Great hair, big breasts and sexy legs.

I was getting excited because nowadays I can approach women under any circumstances, no matter how hot they are.

So I confidently stood up and started walking towards her, feeling totally calm and relaxed.

Long story short, I chatted a little bit with her using some of the techniques I’ve learned at Magic Bullets.

4 minutes later I said her good-bye and got her number.

Then I came back to my friend to enjoy this trophy (getting a hot girl e-mail and number for me is easy to do, because I use Love Systems Magic Bullets openers and routines.)

Anyways, when I returned to my table, we saw an average man entering the room and sitting with her.

It was very obvious that she was his girlfriend. He was older than her and he was dressed in a very average way.

In fact he was losing his hair already.

My friends and I started to get curious about this guy, and we tried to figure out what was so special about this guy.

So we find a way to start making conversation with the couple and 20 minutes later we were chatting with them.

We confirmed that they were in a relationship.

We Were Blown Away

We understood that his personality was what kept her interested in him.

His look had nothing to do here. He wasn’t handsome or tall.

Later that night, we concluded that an average looking guy can attract the hottest girl like that blonde.

He used some mental tricks in order to get her. He knew how to use his best asset: his personality

In fact, approaching very hot girls, is something which at the beginning is not a very easy thing to do.

But I learned how to do that easily reading some books on this topic.

There is another great one out there called “Guy Gets Girl” written by a woman, a very well-known dating advisor.

Most of our readers have learned some valuable lessons from this book.

In fact it has helped them to get their first stunning girlfriend.

The truth is that before they read this great book they were total chumps who didn’t know how to get a girlfriend (not even a second date).

How To Be A Player

Here are some lessons I’ve learned from this guy at the bar.

• Be fun to be around.

• Kept everyone interested in you with stories.

• Make people around you feel comfortable and relaxed.

• Don’t pay her too much attention.

• Make her to direct her body language exclusively to you.

• Act like you own the place.

• Talk with confidence and authority.

• Project a strong personality.

• He projected a very strong body language.

Final Points

Get this if you want to learn how to be a player:

• Every man, no matter how he looks, no matter how much money has in his bank account, can get a girlfriend by developing an attractive personality.

• Women value more a man’s personality than his looks

If you don’t want a girlfriend, you may just decide to be a player and start getting multiple girlfriends.

But that’s another topic my friend.

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