How to Get Her Number or Email

If you meet more women you’ll get a girlfriend quickly. Here are some killer tips that will allow you to carry out this and get laid faster than the average. In this article I’ll talk about 4 things you can do to get a woman’s number and email.

After working like a mad scientist on how to get a woman’s number/email, David DeAngelo found out a couple of ways to succeed at it.

So, use these techniques to get numbers and meet new women – everyday!

# 1. David DeAngelo’s “Napkin Game”

Here’s an interesting thing I do to get a hot woman’s email/number when I’m in a coffee shop or a restaurant.

1. Draw a tic-tac-toe game in a napkin and put a circle in one of the squares.

2. Then just say to a waiter: “Please give this napkin to that woman over there. Don’t tell her who is it from”.

3. If the napkin comes back, then the game is on!

4. When it’s over, come over to her table and introduce yourself. Tell her: “Hi, I just wanted to meet my opponent, my name is Mario”. This is just one of the techniques David DeAngelo talks about in his book Double Your Dating, the best dating advice book ever written.

5. To keep the conversation going, use an opener or a routine. The book “Magic Bullets” has lots of them.

Now it’s time to get her number… but first, let me say a couple of things that might help you:

# 2. Don’t Focus Just on Getting Numbers

I’ve found that getting an email address is far better, and has more benefits than asking for phone numbers.

  • It gets positive responses: Let’s face it. Why should she give her number to a stranger? I’ve learned that women give me in their email addresses faster than their numbers. I think that’s cause it seems less risky. Besides, when you call a woman you’ve just meet, you’re still a total stranger and she could feel uncomfortable. But if you email her first, both of you will feel more relaxed… and she won’t feel any pressure.
  • She can answer it anytime: When you get her phone number, you need to call her and then reach her. But when you email her, she can read it anytime. And again, there won’t be any pressure. I’ve learned that most women often will act a bit rude over the phone because they don’t know me yet.

So my advice here is: Ask for her email address instead and you’ll get a better response.

She won’t be rude or “cold”.

# 3. Have the Guts to Ask

Don’t be intimidated even if she’s beautiful, have the guts to ask for her number or email. Look, the worst thing that could happen is that she’ll say no…

… but if you ask with confidence and calmness, you’ll be amazed at how many hot women will give her info to you.

A beautiful woman will give you her number/email just because you had the guts to ask.

Confidence is sexy!

# 4. Know What to Say and How to Ask For It

This is actually the easiest part of the process. You just need to talk to her for 3 minutes to get her number and then say:

“Look, I’m going to get back to my friends, nice to meet you!”

The walk away for a few seconds and just when she disconnects, turn back and say:

“Hey…do you have email?”

Always they say “yes”…

Then take out a pen and tell her to write it down… treat her “yes as a “yes” to get it from her too.

Almost never she’ll say no to you, and you’ll get lots of emails, if you do it with:

  • Confidence
  • Calmness
  • Relaxation

And remember, prepare a few comebacks in case she doesn’t want to give it to you.

# 5. Ask for It When She’s About to Leave

You’re going to need lots of CONFIDENCE to do this one.

When she’s about to leave, walk up and say:

“Hi, I was going to introduce myself earlier but I got busy… My name is Mario. What’s yours?

She says her name. Now say confidently:

Look, I know you’re leaving now, but I’d like to chat with you some other day. Do you have email?”

It really important:

  • Not to look creepy or suspicious
  • Be as natural as you can
  • Smile in a charming ways
  • Do this one in a confident-assertive way.  If you hesitate, she won’t give it to you (women hate insecurity).

So make it very natural.

Now, Set Goals for Getting Emails/Numbers

Commit yourself to getting at least 1 new number/email per week using the techniques I’ve just told you.

Remember: Always have the guts to start conversations and ask for their info.

The more you stick to your plans the more success you’ll have down the road.

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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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