Make Yourself A Challenge

A big obstacle when you're trying to get a girlfriend is getting a second date. The reason is that most guys share their feelings very soon. That kills attraction. Most men think this instantly makes her feel attraction …but it's a BIG mistake. So, I bet that when De Niro is on a date, he doesn't need to show her his feelings because he would wait until the time is right to go for that first kiss (only after doing the kiss test).

Women want a challenge. When you start showing feelings, you are no longer one. If she knows that you already like her, she will lose interest in you very fast.

Quality women want what they can't have. That is the only way they fall in love with men! If she feels that she can have you, she won't feel anything but friendship towards you. Learn how to get a girlfriend, women like stuff like:

• mystery

• intrigue

• unpredictability

• drama

…Why do you think they love romance novels? They read them because they want to feel these emotions.

They want to figure out whether that handsome male of the story likes the girl or not.

Do you want to kill the mystery or the intrigue? Tell her that you like her or ask her to be your girlfriend. The result will be that she won't go out with you again… because now you aren't a challenge (she already knows that you like her).

Can You Get Intimate With a Woman Without Show Your Feelings?

An interesting question. A few answers to it are:

1. Use the touching escalation technique.
2. Be cocky and funny to communicate to her the "right things"
3. Keep dating her until she shows her feelings first! Be patient and mature, she'll start feeling attracted to you.
4. When the time is right, kiss her. (but read her body language first)

These 4 things help you to get a girlfriend without showing your feelings. She'll become the "pursuer" instead of being the pursued (as she is used to).

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Pre-selected men are more attractive to women. If you want to get a beautiful girlfriend (or wife), you must use this powerful tool and understand how it works.

The Mating Game

Pre-selection is an evolutionary theory scientists inquired about the mating game in some animals. They discovered that when a male grouse (a type of bird) who wasn't mating with any females was put next to a stuffed female grouse, other females starting mating with him. These facts may sound a bit boring, but let me tell you why they're very important: P reselection happens in humans, too.

…Do not ask me why! It just happens! …I’ve learned it from my own dating experience. A woman's attraction for you increases when she sees that you have already been pre-selected by other women!

So there's a priceless benefit of being seen with attractive females.

Most men try to communicate women that they're valuable and that other women want them. The problem is that they do it in a very obvious way… so it comes off as bragging. Remember, bragging is something that turn women off. Love Systems' "Routines" are the best way to carry this out. I'd recommend to read a great book they wrote called Magic Bullets. It's really useful when if comes communicating preselction to hot women.

What Does Pre-Selection Communicates To Her?

Preselection is a practical mode of criteria at cutting red tape to finding a man of great value. When you do and say things that show you're preselected, it communicates her the right things. It pushes the "right buttons" in her mind that triggers attraction, when done correctly – and without bragging. Look, a woman will think:

"…If those [good-looking women] are attracted to him, maybe there is something that is significant with him…"

Pre-selection sub-communicates that you have something of value to offer to a woman. It could be your:

• Riches

• Job

• Outlook in life

• Attitude

• Beliefs

• Your skills in the bedroom

And look, the best part of this tool is that: You don't even need to be rich, handsome or famous in order to make her want you.

If you're not rich or handsome, but she sees you around hot women, she will feel attracted to you. In her mind, seeing that other women like you is more important than money and looks. She does not need to know you for a month to notice you're valuable. You don't need to be handsome or famous to let her know this. A woman instinctively trusts other women's opinions who already like you. She trust other women who preselected you before. She knows deep within, unconsciously, that you are something of value.

"…If other women want him, there must be a reason…" she thinks.

That's why preselection is also called social proof.

How to Use Social Proof to your Advantage

Look, the point of social proof (preselection) is to let her know that other girls find you attractive and desirable. When you do this, women instantly feel attracted to you, because of the biological mechanisms of preselection. Most guys try to show this by bragging. Obviously this turns women off. Here are a few tips to communicate her that other women already want you:

1. If she calls, tell her you are with a friend (a girl): This subtly tells her that other girls like to spend time with you… so you should have something to offer to women.

2. Have many female friends: Make sure that when she sees you around them, these girls are laughing and having a great time with you. You don't want to seem like a boring guy.

3. When you tell her stories about you always make sure that you are the "hero": Never say anything that could damage your reputation. Women tend to interpret everything you tell them.

4. On the first date, talk about your female friends: This seems counterintuitive but trust me on this one. You must subtly let her know that other women like to be around you. Don't be obvious though! If she discovers that you just want to impress her, it will be counterproductive. A great way to do this point is by using "Routines". Routines is the best way to always have:

• Conversation starters that guarantee you won't get rejected

• Stories that communicates preselection

• Fun games that trigger attraction

• Conversational material ready to go so you never are at a loss for words.

I believe that using routines is the best way to communicate her that you are per-selected man. It's also the best way to making conversation with women.

Are You Ugly, Short Or Financially Unstable?

There's no need to worry, because using pre-selection is a great way to succeed with women even if you’re not handsome or tall.  You deserve to live a happy life! If you use this tool correctly, I can guarantee you that you'll get laid a lot often.

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