In this article we'll learn why being strong is a masculine quality that attracts women instantly – good-looks and being rich won't get you laid as fast as being strong.

The Strong Ones: These guys take life's challenges without showing weakness. They’re powerful in influence and authority. Physical strength has nothing to do here. It’s about being “mentally powerful and firm”. The Weak Ones: This is the type of man who whines and complains about life.

Weak men generally are nice guy who are insecure, shy and nervous. A weak guy is always afraid of going for what he wants – and has a needy attitude towards women. The first group attracts women naturally, while the second one doesn’t.

Women notice really fast whether you're strong or you if you’re not weak. Women want to flirt with you, only if you’re strong. Women want to go out on a date with you when you’re very strong.

Women Need Strong Men

I’ve learned that women do not fall in love with weak men mainly because their weakness and insecurity are things they don’t look for in a man.

The most beautiful ones like to date strong, mature and masculine men who take life's challenges without showing weakness (later in this article I’ll tell you the reason). That’s why I always say that to get a girlfriend you need act strong and powerful – strength shows women you're a real man, not a weak wussy boy- and makes you a man who women would love to have sex with.

Don't make the same mistake I made in the past. I used to think that being nice and polite made women feel attraction towards me.

I was really wrong. Strong and powerful men are the ones who get girlfriend.

What About Women Who Say They Want Sensitive Men?

When you se a man with his girlfriend, you often see both talking about feelings. You see him being emotional and sharing his feelings. You see him being a bit weak so he shows he understand her emotions and stuff like that. So, maybe you won’t agree with me when I suggest to you to be strong in order to get a girlfriend.

That’s a common argument, especially from those who know men that are sensitive and emotional with their girlfriends. They swear being strong and masculine isn't a good strategy. When you ask a woman “What do you look for in men”… she’ll almost instantly answer:

“I want a sensitive man who can make me laugh”

There’s some truth to that. But let me tell you this. Of course when you’re already in a relationship, you can be less strong and start being a bit weak and sensitive. 

But remember, this  falls within the context of a long-term relationship… not in a context of meeting a new woman and start dating her. In the early days of the relationship, you need to show as much strength and masculinity as you can, if you want to attract a woman. So I think it’s never safe to be too rigid in what you believe. Men who are successful with women use what works best… … and don’t exclude anything – just because some people thing’k it doesn’t work.

How to Be Strong

Ok, now let me tell you how to develop this attitude.

Being strong is all about having a firm, optimistic and courageous attitude towards life.

It’s all about speaking deep and slow… and not being afraid of showing extreme masculinity to women. Being strong also means that you’re powerful in a specific field and know how to succeed at it.

Again, muscles have nothing to do here. Of course they could help you to attract women at first, but if they get to know you better and discover that you’re a weak guy, you’ll turn them off.

According to that description, do you feel strong now? Most men believe that working out every day and being in great shape will get them laid… but the truth is that women care a lot about your inner strength – even more about “external” or visible strength. That’s one of the reasons women test men in different and very subtle ways.

They need to know whether you’re just pretending to be strong. They want to know whether you’re firm and courageous, so you can protect and give them security. So here are a few key points to consider if you wan to develop a strong personality and get a girlfriend:

• Be firm and courageous always, especially when you are around her. Never whine or complain in front of her.

• Be powerful in social situations.

• Be mature, bold and decisive.

• Be good at something… and be competent in life.

• Show her that you know you can succeed.

• Tell her that you’re not afraid of anything.

Conclusion

So we’ve just learned why and how to be strong. Now let me give you some last points of advice that will help you to be more attractive and interesting to women:

1. Show people that you are an achiever – and not an "excusiologist".
2. Speak firmly and with security.
3. Use a deep voice tone.
4. When you’re out on a date with hot girl, don't be too nice to her.
5. If you face a challenge in life, show her that you have potency and willingness to overcome it.

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Way #1: Play “hard-to-get”

Women like and want things they can’t have. I’ve found that this concept is especially true for hot women!

… so something that will leave her thinking about you when you aren’t with her is to play hard-to-get.

Do things that show that you’re not very available for her. Things that suggest that you’re very valuable and she’ll need to earn your time if she want to be with you.

Here’s a damn simple way to carry out this:

Step #1 – Tell her that you’ll call her on Monday

Step #2 – Don’t call her on Monday. Call her on Wednesday.

Step #3 – When you call her on Wednesday, plan a date on Friday.

Step # 4 – Cancel the date on Friday and reschedule it until next week.

See what happened here? You were “hard-to-get”. You weren’t available most of the time – and you made her wait.

Look, doing things like being scarce and not calling her every day makes her want to be with you paradoxically, because women want what they cannot have. This means that you shouldn’t that you like her for the first 60 days – so, stop showing your feelings early in the relationship.

Another great way to play hard-to-get is by don’t communicating with her too much. If you call her every day, she’ll lose interest in you.

When you play hard-to-get she’ll start thinking about you all the time (in a positive way) because she’ll try to figure out whether you like her.

Way # 2: Be Very Masculine

Another great way to have her thinking about you all the time is to be extremely masculine and acting like a real man.

The reason this tip works is simple, even obvious: women like masculine men!

“…I’ve learned that women prefer to date a guy who isn’t handsome but is very masculine and confident… than to go out with some Mr. Handsome who isn’t very masculine and is a weak man…” says David DeAngelo a well-known dating advisor.

So, become a masculine man, and you’ll get laid more often. Here are a few tips to it:

• Learn how to become an alpha male

• Stop sharing your feelings during the first 60 days

• Be strong

• Speak with a deep and calm voice tone

• Don’t gossip

• Stop whining about your problems in front of a woman

• Show her that you’re not afraid of anything

Way # 3: Reverse the Tables

This is another way to play hard-to-get. This leaves her thinking about you because you are letting her know that you aren’t like the other guys… and lets her know that you are the selector… not the “selectee”.

For example, when your on a date and she tries to tease you… use a special type of humor called “cocky and funny”:

“I know that you love me… so please stop trying to hide it…”

She’ll laugh and hit you on the arm. Trust me on this. Reversing the tables works great. David DeAngelo adds that “being cocky & funny lets her know that she must earn you first, in order to be with you” I’ve learned that this makes her think about you the whole day!

…Isn’t cocky and funny an amazing thing? Here are another 5 cocky & funny comments you can start using right know.

Way # 4: Not Being Needy.

“Neediness is wussy behavior” says Double Your Dating. Like I said above, if you want to leave her thinking about you, you need to be masculine and stop being needy.

Some of the things needy guys do and you need to avoid at all costs are:

• Being clingy

• Not being able to say “no” to her

• Try please women all the time

• Try to impress them

• Always want to buy them expensive gifts and dinners so they can win women over

Remember: a woman thinks about you because of your personality…

… not because of all the gifts and dinners you bought her…!

Way #5: Creating Comfort

Make her feel protected. Create an atmosphere of trust and comfort. This is an especially important thing to do after you did the 4 thing from above  If you can accomplish this last thing, she’ll want to be with you all the time.

Some of the best ways to get to that point are:

• Telling her stories about your life that she can remember later.

• Introducing her to your friends.

• Not trying to seduce her and going slow. Paradoxically this gets her into bed faster.

• Respecting her feelings and points of view.

Remember: when she trusts you enough she’ll start thinking about you all the time.

Final Points of Advice

I’ve just told you 5 ways to have her thinking about you all the time. Using regularly these tips will eventually make her fall in love with you. When you want to learn how to get a girlfriend this makes things easier:

• Play “hard-to-get”

• Be Very Masculine

• Reverse the Tables

• Don’t be Needy

• Create Comfort

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