The "How to Get Girlfriend" Magazine.com » busy http://how-to-get-girlfriend.com Simple things to do to succeed with women... even if you're not Mr. Handsome! Tue, 04 May 2010 16:34:49 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 A Little Known Way to Get a Girlfriend: Being Busy http://how-to-get-girlfriend.com/a-little-known-way-to-get-a-girlfriend-being-busy/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed http://how-to-get-girlfriend.com/a-little-known-way-to-get-a-girlfriend-being-busy/#comments Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:39:05 +0000 Mario C. - Dating Advisor http://how-to-get-girlfriend.com/?p=1723 It's important to be a busy man if you want to get a girlfriend. Read on to learn why. Being busy makes you more attractive to women because it makes you different from the others. When a regular guy likes a woman, most of the time he'll try to spend all his time with her… …and he'll want to let her know how much he likes her, and make her the center of his life. If that's the way you act around women… stop doing it, because it's wrong! I bet women play hard-to-get when they notice you are too available.

Don't be Too Available

A woman will realize that you want to get her into bed if you're always available. The 2 bad things will happen: 1. You won't trigger her "attraction buttons". 2. She'll see you as a another typical boring "nice guy" Remember the law of scarcity:

When someone perceives something they want to be in limited quantity,the perceived value of that thing or person becomes more valuable than if were widely available.

So, if you are always busy, your perceived value will be HIGHER and it will make you more attractive to her.

How Does Being Busy Helps You to Get a Girlfriend?

The reason I'm suggest you to become a busy man is because women want men they can't have. Not being available subtly shows her attractive things about you:

  • It confuses hot women: Remember, beautiful women want men they can't have. The best part of being busy is that it confuses hot women. Look, these girls are used to being chased by men. "If she thinks that you aren’t interested in her, she'll start wanting to be with you" says David DeAngelo.
  • It makes you scarce… and more valuable: When you're not available for a hot woman, it lets her know that she needs to earn your time and attention if she want to be with you – and when you do this, you're value goes up instantly. It makes you more likeable… and attractive
  • Creates mystery: When you're really busy to spend time with her, it makes wonder whether you’re really interested in her or not. Of course you dot want to be unavailable always. You just need to be busy part of the time, so you let her know that you are valuable too.

 

Years back I always was too available for women. I tried to spend the whole day with the girl I was dating. Then, when most of them didn't return my calls nor want to go out on a second date, I learned that hot women shouldn't be the first priority in my life… and that if they noticed this, I would lose them. That's why being unavailable for women helps you to succeed in the dating game. Remember, I'm not suggesting you to be unavailable the whole time. Just be busy some days… especially if she's really hot. Trust me on this… I've been there. Don't make the same mistakes I made. This article is a part of the eCourse "50 Personality Traits That Attract Women" Here's how to subscribe to it. Follow me on twitter!

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