How to Get a Date

Mario C. - Dating Advisor — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:24:19 +0000

To get a date, be confident and relaxed around her.Is getting a date difficult to you?

Some of our readers are also stuck at the first step to getting a girlfriend.

In this article you’ll learn 4 things to get a date. They also will allow to understand how to get a girflriend.

Building trust with her.
Why trying to impress her will turn her off.
Never acting nervous.
Leading.
Why confidence and calmness are very important.

They work. And here they are:

1. To Get A Date Build Trust With Her

A good way to achieve this is by building credibility for yourself. It sounds easy, ain’t it?

That’s because it is!

Most men try to hard to impress women. When you do that, you show you think you’re not worth of her as you are, so that’s why you show her your money, car or anything else.

Big turn-off.

But the truth is that women like our personalities better that our material possessions.

To build trust just be normal and talk about neutral topics. Don’t use pick up lines, she already knows them. Don’t try to be original or too smart just to impress her.

Just behave normal. The best way to impress her is when you do not try to.

2. Never Act Nervous

Would Brad Pitt act nervous around Angelina Jolie when he first met her? Of course not, my friend. I bet he was really comfortable and acted confident.

Talking to women it’s not a job interview.

Bad news is that nervousness doesn’t let you to show her your best personality traits, the ones that attract hot women naturally.

So Relax.

And take a deep breath.

If I told you that maybe secretly she already wants you, why would you feel nervous around her? Would you stay calm and confident when you speak to her? I bet you would act as if you didn’t care about her.

This attitude differentiates you from the rest and help you to get dates.

Don’t give a damn about what she thinks about you.

3. Always Lead Her

Leadership is attractive to beautiful women. Don’t ask me why, it just does, so:

Lead the conversation.

Lead the way.

Never hesitate when you make a choice.

Don’t wait until she decides what to do or where to go on a date.

4. Ask For The Date Confidently

So far so good.

You didn’t try to impress or acted nervous and you were the leader. Now she wants to get to know you better. This is the right moment to get a date.

Once you’ve done that and ask her for a date. Nothing is going to happen until you take this step.

She won’t reject you, because now she likes you.

Do it confidently. Just assume that she will accept, no matter how attractive she is.

Say something like:

“Hey I gotta go now, but I enjoyed this conversation a lot. I´d really like to chat with you in a few days. So please cancel any appointment you have next Thursday at 7pm. You are going to have so much fun with me.”

Here I’m using David DeAngelo’s cocky & funny technique (just grab a copy of his book, it’ll help you to overcome any obstacle you may have when dealing with hot women).

90 out of 100 times they accept. The other 10% will test you.

When you ask for the date with this kind of powerful a decisive attitude, she loves it. Most men ask girls out expecting to be rejected by them. They expect failure.

You’ll be amazed at the power of this simple technique.

Repeat The Process to Learn How to Get a Girlfriend

As you get more practice the process of getting dates will become easier.