In this article I’m gonna tell you how to attract women by being a challenge. Here's how to become one.

 Being a challenge is a great concept I learned a few years ago – that helped me to become more succesful with women… which changed the way I saw the dating game.

Qualities of a Challenge

• Is the prize: He never puts women on a pedestal. He always put himself first. Never tries to win women over. Instead he’ll look for opportunities to show her she’s the one that will work for him, not the other way around.

• Is not needy: Never calls her right away after the first date. He doesn’t text, email or call her every day. Never shares his feelings too early.

• Won't try to please her: A lot of guys will try to win women over by buying them gifts, flowers and expensive dinners. This clearly is anti-challenge behavior. Not trying to please women and playing hard-to-get creates a challenge with women.

• Plays “hard-to-get”: A challenge doesn’t answers a woman’s phone calls or emails right away. A challenge doesn’t do what a woman tells him to do. And foremost, a challenge is not easy to control.

• Is scarce: A challenge is not available most of the time for women. He never calls a woman every day. When a woman ask him how was his day, he never answers “nothing” or “not much, I went to work and then watched TV at home” Big turn-off!

Rule # 1: "You Are The Prize She Needs To Earn"

Let me ask you something that will let us know whether you’re the prize or not. When you see a woman you like, what's the first thing that you do?

a) Start chasing her? (complimenting her, calling her too much, acting like a puppy dog around her)

b) Act like the prize: Lean back, play hard-to-get and let her come to you? If you chose the first option, maybe you have a very hard time getting laid. If you do the second one, I'm sure that you're doing fine with women.

Remember, to get women into bed, you must be the prize.

When you compliment women, you are telling them they’re more important and have a high value that you. It’s not that I’m want you to be mean with women. I’m just talking about being confident and being a challenge to them. This is what truly creates attraction. So act in ways that tell women they need to earn you in order to sleep with you…

Acting this way, I guarantee you that you'll get many women into bed!

Rule # 2: "Don't Call Women Too Much"

To a woman's point of view, when a guy call her too much, it says negative things about him.

First,calling her immediately after the first date it's really predictable. Everyone does the same: they go out on a date then  he calls her after the date  and tells her she's beautiful and that he would like to spend more time with her… That's lame stuff. She hears that every time she dates a new guy. So look, any woman who has a shred of attraction left at the end of a first date with you, loses it when you, Mr. Lonely Man, call her the next day, looking for  approval and destroying your prizability!!

Calling her immediately (and even waiting just one day) is way too soon. You might as well just say: "I know I'm a loser, but please, please have pity on me and like me just a little, please?”. So my advice here is:

Do other things these 4 long days. Go out with other women. Spend time with your friends. Work out. Wash you car 45 times. Whatever. Seriously, do something else. You want to create a challenge. You want to look like the prize she must earn. (A good thing to do also is to erase her number… and stop thinking too much about her… she's not the only woman in the world.) If you do this right… she'll be the one thinking about you during those 4 days.

Rule # 3: "Don't Try To Please Her..! "

Stop trying to please women. When you do it’s because .you're afraid that if you don't cater to her every whim, she won't like you..! The truth is that:

Instead:

• Don't care whether she likes what you're doing or not.

• Don't check in with your date to see if she's comfortable

• Don't care if she's having a good time or how she thinks the date is "going."

If your not getting second dates your problem is that you are not being a challenge, at all!

Rule # 1: "Be Scarce"

During the first 3 dates, you want to keep her curious and interested. So, stop being so damn available! Again, remember not to text/mail/call her immediately..! I've found that this turns her on because it keeps her wondering whether she's going to be able to win you over or not.

Conclusion

Being a challenge is a proven method to getting a second date... especially if she's a beautiful girl who has 45 guys hitting on her every week. That will help you to get a girlfriend.

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