2 Things that Guarantee getting a Second Date
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Jan 23, 2009 | Comments 0
Here are 2 tips that seem counterintuitive but are very effective when it comes getting a second date. Most men try to leave a good impression on the first date, but my advice here is to stop doing that. Start doing the opposite thing.
Here are 2 quick first date tips that will make women want to go out with you again, if done correctly:
1. Arrive a little bit late: Arrive 10 minutes late. Tell her that you were with a group of friends, or planning xyz thing, so you couldn’t arrive on time for the meeting. This makes you a challenge.
2. End the interaction first:Average men will keep talking to the woman as long as they can… But if you’re the first to end the date, you separate yourself from the rest by coming across as an interesting challenge. Then, when you call her later, she’ll be excited to hear from you!
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These are REALLY SMART things to do on a first date because:
1. They make you look busy. An average guy, will try to spend a lot of time with the woman he likes – He wants to make her know that he wants a serious relationship. He arrives first to every date and wants to talk for hours and hours with her…
…but the truth is that if you want to get a girlfriend, this is a big mistake! Women will run away from you because being too available makes you look needy and not attractive. A hot woman would think:
“Why is he too available? Could this be because he has no other options? I wonder why isn’t he dating other women… Maybe there’s something wrong with him.
And believe me… if you try to spend too much time with her, she’ll see that you have no social life and no interesting things to do… and that you aren’t attractive to other women.
2. This strategy makes you a challenge: Again, when you arrive a bit late and leave first, it tells her that you are a busy man who has no time for women.
And since women want what they can’t have, when you make yourself scarce (the prize), it instantly makes you more attractive to her. Learn 10 ways to become the prize.
3. This strategy makes shows that you don’t need to impress her: When you try to do everything “right”, sometimes it seems like you want to impress her, a very bad strategy. She will think:
Why is this guy trying to be “so perfect” and impress me? Could he be hiding something? Why does he feels like he’s not good enough for me and has to impress me?
Doing these 2 things on a date will improve your success with women and will make getting a girlfriend a lot easier.
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.
