Want to Get More Dates? Be Indifferent and Don’t Care About the Outcome

This is part of the article “How to Act On a Date so You Make Her Want You Badly”.

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Years ago, I was clueless about how to make a woman feel attraction towards me.

I did many things wrong like:

  • Give them compliments so I could win them over
  • Showing that I liked them
  • Buying them dinners and expensive gifts

Obviously, women noticed my needy attitude… and ran away from me instantly.

Hopefully, I read a few dating advice booksThen I learned that these behaviors lead to friendship…

…not sex. So keep reading to see the amazing things I’ve learned reading those books.

How to Make Her Want You Badly

Here are few things I learned from those great books:

  • Not caring too much about getting her or leaving a good impression.
  • Lean back and relax when I’m speaking with women
  • The benefits of being cocky and funny, busting her balls and making jokes about her
  • Acting aloof to raise her interest in me
  • Don’t touch her at all to build the sexual tension
  • And tease her a bit more… yeah why not?

Be Indifferent, Never Give Hot Women Special Treatment

It’s not that I want you to treat women disrespectfully.

It’s all about keeping the power in your court.

Look, hot women are used to having all the power when they deal with men.

Almost no men know how to keep them in their toes! So, to be different from the rest, be indifferent to their beauty.

When you:

  • treat all women the same
  • stop treating hot women like goddesses

… a very interesting thing happens.

First, she feels very intrigued because… you’re different that the others!

You’re not acting like a puppy dog who wants to receive attention from her. You are a real man!

Just think about this. If you were a hot woman, and 45 guys were chasing you, giving you flowers and compliments…

…and just one of them was acting indifferent and giving you no attention…

…which one would be more interesting?

A woman with a healthy self-esteem would choose option 2. That’s why you should be indifferent and stop giving her special treatment… even if she’s really beautiful!

Don’t Care About the Outcome

Don’t care. Be indifferent.

Don’t give a damn about the outcome with a woman. Don’t focus too much on:

  1. Getting a second date
  2. Finding the right moment to kiss her
  3. Leaving a good impression
  4. Physical escalation… and so on

In you do that, you’ll seem needy and hungry for sex!

Women are REALLY clever when it comes to figuring out whether you want to get into her pants or not.

The can smell neediness a mile away and run aways from it!

Instead, just relax! When keep a calm, cool and relaxed attitude, you naturally attract her. (and achieve these 4 things at the same time)

Whether you are trying to hide the fact that you want to get a second date or not, unconsciously you’ll show behaviors that reflects it:

  • Nervous tics
  • Moving your hands too fast
  • Answering her questions very fast
  • Talking to fast
  • Giving her too much attention
  • Looking at her like a hungry bear…
  • Asking her too many questions
  • Looking her too much

I used behaving like this before. What I did to solve this problem is to do the opposite.

When I noticed that:

…I was talking fast, I started speaking slower and relax.

…I was giving her too much attention, I started a bit aloof and mysterious.

…I was answering her questions very fast, I started not answering them…

…or answering with a cocky and funny line.

Conclusion

So stop caring about the outcome. Just have a good time.  Instead of focusing on getting her into bed, focus on make her your friend…

Just don’t get me wrong…

Talking about how you’re going to be good friends on a date is a powerful dating strategy DoubleYourDating teaches.

I don’t want you to fall in the “let’s just be friends” zone… this strategies help you to become a DIFFERENT guy in her eyes. Someone who’s not like the other 146 hungry guy who hit on her every day.

I know that this tips sound crazy, but trust me, this will help you to get a girlfriend.

I guarantee you this, because they help me every week to get laid with a different woman.

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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.

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