Weak vs. Strong Behavior

strongIn this article you’ll learn why being strong is the the best way to get a girlfriend.

Being strong has nothing to do with the physical strenght here.  It’s all about character and being a real man.

Remember, if you’re weak (being a nice guy) you’ll lose her as fast as wall street stocks fell in 2009.

So let’s compare a few things to keep becoming stronger:

Strong Body Language

Most weak men feel that they have no masculine power. Acting weak makes you fall into the “let’s just be friends zone”.

What does a Weak Man does with his body?

  • He projects nervous behaviors and gestures.
  • He moves his hands very quickly.
  • He does things women interpret as insecurity (not maintaing eye contact for example).
  • His eyes wander around, looking for something. He never feels the center of attention.
  • He moves his body very fast.
  • He walks hunching over.
  • He has nervous tics.
  • He moves his legs constanly when he is sitting.
  • He doesn’t smile often. He’s uncorfortable with himself an is always serous.

What does a Strong Man does?

  • He stands up tall with authority, like he owns the place and is deciding things and controling the situation.
  • He moves his body very slowly. He never seems to be in a rush.
  • He holds strong eye contact with everyone. (Just don’t over do it, cause you might look creepy)
  • A strong man turns his head very slowly.
  • He expand his body and uses as much space as he can.
  • He blinks slowly.
  • He’s calm and relaxed, especially around hot girls. (This point is importan – most men feel nervous around women… my advice is to be confident around them)

Strong Conversation

What does a Weak Man does?

  • He speaks in a whiny pitched voice tone – this screams insecurity and isnt’ attractive!
  • If a girl doesn’t agree with him, he will force her into it – this also screams insecurity. (If you’re not getting second dates this might be the cause…)
  • He lets her lead the conversation. This shows lack of confidence.
  • He speaks fast. He does not feel commfortable with silences.
  • He can’t mantaint eye contact when he talks. Speaking and hold eye contact at the same time – this is attractive to women because it shows confidence and strnght.
  • He talks about boring topics like school, the weather and politics.
  • He always needs to show that he’s and expert at something.
  • He seeks for approval. (Weak men need to know that their doing OK)
  • His talks about his feelings – this creeps her away! She doesn’t want to be your therapist..!

How does the Strong Man speaks to her?

  • strong manHe speaks slowly, in a totally relaxed way – he speaks with a deep voice tone.
  • He’s a bold guy.
  • When he states something, he never shows insecurity. He assumes he’s right. He know that the girl will agree everything he does or say -but if she doesn’t he’d never force the girl to it.
  • He never seeks for a girl’s approval.
  • He knows he is doing OK in life… and he shows it in his conversation.

I’ve learned that when I shows her strengh though my converstion, she will accept a second date.

A Strong Attitude

What’s the overall attitude of  the Weak Man?

  • He doesn’t know clearly his pourpuse in life.
  • He is pesimistic and doesn’t belives in progress.
  • He has no energy.
  • He is depressed  adn nostalgic.
  • He whines and blames others.
  • He never takes responsibility of his acts.
  • He doubts his abillities, so he doeesn’t like challenges.
  • He is unhappy.

Which attitude does the Strong Man Projects?


  • He knows clearly what his pourpose is. He always plans every aspect of his life: carrer, relationships, vacations, entertainment, hobbies. He nevers lets other decide for him.
  • He is an achiever. He knows it – so he wins always.
  • He holds a clear image in his mind about him succeding with women. Then he works towards it everyday.
  • He is optimistic.
  • He loves challenges.
  • He loves life.

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