Weak vs. Strong Behavior
Brett Tayler | Oct 22, 2009 | Comments 14
In this article you’ll learn why being strong is the the best way to get a girlfriend.
Being strong has nothing to do with the physical strenght here. It’s all about character and being a real man.
Remember, if you’re weak (being a nice guy) you’ll lose her as fast as wall street stocks fell in 2009.
So let’s compare a few things to keep becoming stronger:
Strong Body Language
Most weak men feel that they have no masculine power. Acting weak makes you fall into the “let’s just be friends zone”.
What does a Weak Man does with his body?
- He projects nervous behaviors and gestures.
- He moves his hands very quickly.
- He does things women interpret as insecurity (not maintaing eye contact for example).
- His eyes wander around, looking for something. He never feels the center of attention.
- He moves his body very fast.
- He walks hunching over.
- He has nervous tics.
- He moves his legs constanly when he is sitting.
- He doesn’t smile often. He’s uncorfortable with himself an is always serous.
What does a Strong Man does?
- He stands up tall with authority, like he owns the place and is deciding things and controling the situation.
- He moves his body very slowly. He never seems to be in a rush.
- He holds strong eye contact with everyone. (Just don’t over do it, cause you might look creepy)
- A strong man turns his head very slowly.
- He expand his body and uses as much space as he can.
- He blinks slowly.
- He’s calm and relaxed, especially around hot girls. (This point is importan – most men feel nervous around women… my advice is to be confident around them)
Strong Conversation
What does a Weak Man does?
- He speaks in a whiny pitched voice tone – this screams insecurity and isnt’ attractive!
- If a girl doesn’t agree with him, he will force her into it – this also screams insecurity. (If you’re not getting second dates this might be the cause…)
- He lets her lead the conversation. This shows lack of confidence.
- He speaks fast. He does not feel commfortable with silences.
- He can’t mantaint eye contact when he talks. Speaking and hold eye contact at the same time – this is attractive to women because it shows confidence and strnght.
- He talks about boring topics like school, the weather and politics.
- He always needs to show that he’s and expert at something.
- He seeks for approval. (Weak men need to know that their doing OK)
- His talks about his feelings – this creeps her away! She doesn’t want to be your therapist..!
How does the Strong Man speaks to her?
- He’s a bold guy.
- When he states something, he never shows insecurity. He assumes he’s right. He know that the girl will agree everything he does or say -but if she doesn’t he’d never force the girl to it.
- He never seeks for a girl’s approval.
- He knows he is doing OK in life… and he shows it in his conversation.
I’ve learned that when I shows her strengh though my converstion, she will accept a second date.
A Strong Attitude
What’s the overall attitude of the Weak Man?
- He doesn’t know clearly his pourpuse in life.
- He is pesimistic and doesn’t belives in progress.
- He has no energy.
- He is depressed adn nostalgic.
- He whines and blames others.
- He never takes responsibility of his acts.
- He doubts his abillities, so he doeesn’t like challenges.
- He is unhappy.
Which attitude does the Strong Man Projects?
- He knows clearly what his pourpose is. He always plans every aspect of his life: carrer, relationships, vacations, entertainment, hobbies. He nevers lets other decide for him.
- He is an achiever. He knows it – so he wins always.
- He holds a clear image in his mind about him succeding with women. Then he works towards it everyday.
- He is optimistic.
- He loves challenges.
- He loves life.
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