Where to Go On a Date
Mario C. - Dating Advisor | Dec 23, 2009 | Comments 0
This is part of the article “How to Act On a Date so You Make Her Want You Badly”.
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In this article I’m gonna tell you why the point of the first date is not to impress her - just to go somewhere you can make friends with her, as Double Your Dating says – ” and set you apart from the rest of the guys”
So you met a hot woman at a friend’s party. You did your homework and got her number.
Awesome job. Now it’s time to get a date.
Look, it really doesn’t matter where you go on a date… as long as it doesn’t seem like you’re trying to impress her.
It’s not really important to do the best impression on the girl:
What is important on a date is to attract her and build the sexual tension.
So today, I’m gonna focus on explaining you how just to go and do something interesting that attract her – instead of going on a date and buy her an expensive dinner and taking her to a boring movie.
# 1 Coffee Dates are Better
I’ve found that the smartest thing to do on a date is to take her to a coffee-house. Here are a few benefits of doing this:
- These dates aren’t expensive
- They’re quick and casual. You can just have fun and talk
- It doesn’t look like you are courting her – so you become a challenge.
- Going to Starbucks isn’t “romantic”, so there’s no pressure at all for her.
“Coffee dates make you an interesting guy who is not like the others”, Double Your Dating says. “Every man wants to take her out to fancy restaurants and buy her expensive things … just to impress her and win her over”.
So, don’t do that. Instead, impress her with your personality (not with your wallet). The point is not to look like you want to impress her doing romantic things and stuff so you become the prize.
The idea here is to find some place you feel comfortable with… and then go there – but look, if you don’t like Starbucks, it’ll be a bad idea to go there on a date.
So now let me give you other first date tips.
# 2 Go to Fun Places
Find a place with interesting things to do and talk about… somewhere you can be comfortable on the date.
Since women are emotionally creatures – if you can make give them a lot of emotions on the date, you’ll make her want to be with you so badly. Let me talk about some great locations you might pick for a first date, other than the typical “movie nad dinner” date.
- Malls: Consider to go somewhere full of fun shops. You can even have her help you pick out new clothes. I’ve learned that fun shops give you many things to talk about with her. Make sure you wander away from her a few times so you don’t look needy.
- Concerts Going to concerts helps you to relax cause won’t need to speak – these places are great especially if you’re not a great conversationalist. You can just sit and listen to the band. Go to her favourite band’s concert… you’ll make and unforgettable impression on your date.
- Entertainment places: Casinos and Dave and Buster’s are great locations for a date since there are lots of things to do and talk about – besides she can “get” lots of emotions at those places.
- Mini-golf Date: Again, women love fun places. This location allows you to talk a lot with her. And remember, this is a great time to use some routines on her, in order to push attraction buttons in her head.
Conclusion
I hope you consider some of these places on your next date. Let me know what you think about these places.
Remember, spending too much money on women isn’t necessary… and it’s lame because it makes you look like you are trying to impress women.
If you want to how to attract any woman, any place, any time… Read this.
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About the Author: Mario C. has been a Dating Advisor for more than 25 years. He has helped thousands of men from the US, UK, France and Australia to succeed with women.
