In this article I’ll tell you why giving her gifts and flowers is a REALLY bad thing and how it’s destroying your chances of getting a girlfriend.

Have you ever noticed that when you give flowers or chocolates to a beautiful woman, it seems to work against you?

This used to happen to me a lot…

Instead of helping me to attract women and to get a girlfriend, giving them flowers  and gifts didn’t seem to be helping me at all.

Let me talk about the painful things that happen when you try to win a woman over:

• You meet a new girl

• You go out with her on a date

• You decide to do something not really smart – to give her flowers on the next date (“Flowers are cool” – you think – “She’ll start to like me)

• Then, when you call after the date she tells you that she’s too busy to go out with you… and now she just wants to be friends with you.

Being Nice is Bad

Confident men don't need approval from women, so they don't buy them things.

That happened to me a lot, so I really wanted to figure out what was I doing wrong.

Most of my friends suggested me to give women expensive flowers and gifts – even I remember when my dad told me in 1983 that maybe I wasn’t succeeding with women because I wasn’t giving them enough chocolates and gifts…

The problem here is that in the dating game, being a nice guy is a bad thing. Confessing your love or giving her flowers, most of the time isn’t going to make her feel the same way towards you.

Doing lame things like writing “romantic emails” destroyed my chances of getting a girlfriend. (Then I understood that I should save these things for later, when we were already married).

Stop Doing “Nice Things”

Then I reach a point in  my life when I decided to stop buying women gifts and flowers, just to see what could happen. I was afraid that they would get upset or something. But the opposite happened.

These women started showing interest in me – the opposite I expected to happen. It was incredible.

I mean, why would a woman be interested in me if I wasn’t giving her gifts? The answer was simple. Keep reading to discover it!

Women Want You Only When You Don’t Give Them Gifts!

Vito Corleone don't give women flowers

Women perceive men who do “nice things” as weak and insecure.

They know that a real man doesn’t need her approval and don’t try to win a woman’s affection…

… and they know that any who is trying to win her over is not really confident in himself.

And remember, women want confident men!

Don’t Be a “Wuss”

There are a few movies that will help you to get a girlfriend. For example, I’ve never seen James Bond give a woman flowers and then sleep with her. What he does in order to get them into bed is to show confidence.

Or let’s take for example the “The Godfather”. Have you ever seen him writing love letters or sending women chocolates?

These men attract women using their personalities. So stop:

• Giving her flowers too soon

• Calling her too much and too often

• Giving her gifts like teddy bears

• Confessing her that you like her. (She already knows it my friend…)

• Texting her too often

Instead of doing these things, start behaving strong, and letting her chase you.

Final Tips

Being nice means that you’re weak. And remember, women don’t like weak men. What do you think about this?

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