One of the biggest mistakes men make with women is being very nice and polite on a first date. This attitude usually makes women play hard-to-get and reject men.

As a rule of thumb never do or say things that suggest you like her after the first date. Here's why:

1.    A hot woman wants a guy with confidence and a high self-esteem. A healthy self-esteem is a trait women love in men, and a hot woman is looking a man who has those qualities.

2.   …But she can’t just ask you: “Hey are you the type of man I date”. She’ll just look for cues to determine whether you are this type of man or not. 3. When you say nice things like "I like you" or "I think you're beautiful" or “thanks for the date, I’d like to see you again” at some place she'll perceive a lack of confidence and self-esteem… and that probably you don't date hot women often, and that you don’t feel worth her…

4.   …In other words, she notices you’re not her type of man. That’s why you shouldn’t say "thanks for the date".

Why You Can't Be Too Polite

Most men call, text or send women emails immediately after the first date… just to show they had a great time. This was a mistake a made regularly. I used to think that saying polite things and being grateful for the date was a smart way to get women into bed. I believed that this way somehow I was going to seduce her.

The truth is that the opposite happened often. That’s why now I’m the first to end the date without telling her that I liked it. Also, I even tease her by saying something cocky and funny, like: “hey I now we had a great time, but just don’t call me 100 times next week, please control yourself”. When I say things like that, women often hit me on my arm and laugh.

Bingo. They’re attracted to me.

Hot Women Aren't Too Nice to Men

Most women aren't nice to men… because they are really clever. They don't show their feelings too soon. They know how to play their cards in this game. Have a hot woman ever said to you "thank you for this date"? Of course not. They don’t do that.

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